
05-24-2009, 04:34 AM
Why would you have to put something like that in your profile? Yes, it is perfectly acceptable to say, "I have never been attracted to men who were not *insert race here*," or "I've only ever been attracted to persons who were *insert race here*." But you can put that in your profile, and just ignore guys that don't fit the bill, or you can be open-minded and say, "I haven't experienced this yet, but I'm open to the possibility." I just don't understand why you would put something that personal in an open dating forum. All that's gonna do is get you spam from people who will automatically assume you're racist, no matter how you phrase it, and guys that want to "change you mind." (Speaking as a gay woman on the last bit. You wouldn't believe how many guys think they can "show me the light." *chuckles*)
In any case, no one really knows but you whether or not you are racist.
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