09-05-2009, 03:04 AM
Oh girl, definitely let him go and don't think twice about it. Loving you means loving YOU, not loving an idea of who he wants you to be. Of course every couple has their ups and downs, but demanding that you put yourself in danger, make serious changes to your personality, AND lose your virginity to him is not okay. You don't need to have sex to move forward in your relationship. Plenty of people wait until after they get married! And, while that is not the route I went, I did wait and say no many times until I found the right person. I actually found that people respected me for waiting. If your boyfriend cannot respect you enough to love you as you are, he's not worth your time.
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