I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend...
but there is this guy I really really like. I just can't stop thinking about him and all that jazz.
Anyway, on my grad cruise I introduced this guy to one of my friends and then suddenly they hit it off like there's no tomorrow. They aren't 'together' yet but this friend totally has the hots for him and now I'm beginning to realize that if I don't do something soon, he's not going to be single for very much longer.
I know I'm jealous or something, I just... I really like him a lot and I don't know what to do.
My friends have said that they can tell that he likes me too, and at first I thought so as well, now I'm not so sure... I think he has begun to like this girl more than me... they have barely known each other for a month! I've known him for two years!

What do I do? I am probably one of the most clueless person you'll ever hear of when it comes to love.
-sigh-
So what I'm trying to ask is... can someone give me some tips on hooking up with a guy? What do I have to do to 'make the first move'?



oh. and can someone explain what flirting is to me? I've looked up the definition and it just doesn't make sense. People tell me I should 'flirt shamelessly' ... that info doesn't make sense to me. I'm hopeless...