11-02-2009, 05:47 AM
I had that exact problem. My friends dumped me cause I picked to spend some more time with my boyfriend at the time, which is my husband now. I lost my entire family, and I really don't care about it, cause none of them like him. They even excluded me out of the family things cause of it. Like burying my own grandparents and being able to take at least one thing of each of theirs to remember them by. My mom lied to give us something cause no one would of allowed me to get anything. I just pulled myself away from the ones who didn't like my man and ignored them completely. If they are truly your friends they would accept her. And if they noticed things they didn't like her doing, like cheating or whatever that could hurt you, then they can tell you about it and state that they don't like her. But if they don't know her, they should get to know the girl first. Or just keep their mouths shut and accept it. After all it is your girlfriend and not theirs. Just ignore them and if they say anything tell them off. They can't expect you to dump her just cause they don't like her.
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