I'm a recent celibate and haven't been with anyone in at least three years...21 and single, and proud, and gay...but hey, not everything I want can be accomplished if i have someone so reliant on me...so i just chose not to let anyone become more than a friend...though sometimes i have wanted to change that...

You know the little 5 year old that was murdered, Shaniya? She was murdered 6 miles south of where i live...and the man that raped her to death sat next to me at a job interview...the shock hasn't set in yet...but i just can't believe how he seemed so calm and honestly looked like he was trying to change his life...then did that to a 5 yr old...who was sold by her mother to the man as a prostitute....the world........it just makes me sick.