I have my ears pierced and I wanted the top and middle pierced too but my parents said no Dx
I also had wanted one on my lip or my nose cause they just seem so cool (and again that too was rejected)
As for hair die, I have high lights in my hair. It was originally blondish brown (cause my natural hair's dark brown so the blond didn't have a full effect) with red but now it's faded so it looks like light brown with brownish red xD
I wanted to die my hair a bright red like a strawberry blond but my mom said no cause it won't work with my hair (and she isn't a big fan of red hair dye) Dx