Omgoodness, I had to practically bash Travis over the head with a 2x4 to get him to open up! He had had a horrible relationship before me. She was cheating on him. He knew it. He thought he could change her... Bad ju-ju.

BUT! Once I finally got him to open a little - and laugh a LOT! He saw that I wasn't out to hurt him... unless snuggling to death counts!