Thank you! Flux and I are concerned for Leah and her relationship with this guy. But excuse me for saying, but he is your stereotypical mama's boy and used to getting his way. She has insisted that he has gotten better, but on more than occasion she's had to bail on us when we offered to go out with the both of them.

We are trying to be fair to him even though he hasn't really shown himself to be fair to her.

I am sorry that you have been going through the same thing. I wouldn't wish this for anyone.

As I am back in college for another degree, I do hang out with my fellow students, but most of them are guys and most have no interest in "girl problems" and would prefer to play their XBox 360. So I am not close even though we hang out. The few girls that are also in my classes are self-absorbed--not a description that I use lightly. They are more concerned about impressing/using the guys in our classes. Somehow, I am competition. I don't see why since I am not particularly cute or pretty--and I am not trying to be self-degrading but honest (I am short and overweight by a lot!).