Ok, reading what you said and most of what was said to you here, I only have a few things to say.
A) I understand what it's like to get treated like this, especially on big sites.
B) This is the internet, half the people on it are only here to bully others.
C) If someone's being rude to you or harassing you or something, then there's something wrong with them and they're just trying to get you down to make themselves feel better.... Just like on the school playground.
And finally...
D) If someone tries to act like a bad-@$$ online and bullies people, it's because they have no (basket)balls and a tiny wenis.