05-09-2010, 04:52 PM
Just because a person's morals are different does not mean that they are inferior or nonexistent. :yes:
I know that it seems like a huge deal right now, but I'm willing to bet that you and your friend have much more in common than just your (previous) beliefs about premarital sex. You hung out with him for a reason, right? So unless he and his girlfriend begin doing the dirty right in front of you everyday, then sex is just a part of his private life. As long as he is being safe, then it isn't hurting him any. Sex could even help him become closer to his girlfriend and experience emotions that he has never felt before.
Not everyone is suited for certain lifestyles - Premarital sex and alcohol may not be for you, but that does not mean that everyone else is suited for abstinence. I think that it's time to just step back and realize that everyone is going to follow the lifestyle that suits them best.
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