You people are so selfish. "I am no more than an incubator." MY MY MY!!
You seem to think that you are the only one involved in this. When you got pregnant, two people became involved (in fact, lots more, but lets leave society, parents, etc out of it for now). Yet you throw away any notion that someone else could be as important as you are. When you became pregnant, it became one body shared by two people. Just because you were there first does not give you any more right to it. Perhaps if the child had forced itself upon you, but it didn't. Other than rape, its probably your fault anyway. So grow a pair, suck it up, and realize that life isn't all flowers and sunshine. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices.

Oh, and just because something is illegal or legal doesn't make it right or wrong. Slavery for example.

I do think your point about the doctor saying when it's a person is valid. However, its just not my belief that you need a complete consciousness or body to be a person. Otherwise, most people aren't people until around 25, and even then some don't make it.