lol That friend had better be packing her stuff up to get out of town as soon as she sees me walk in the front door. I am NOT known for being very forgiving. And as for the husband? I would probably kick his butt right out the front door. Or lock him up in the dog house that I would undoubtedly have and leave him there for a while. And then kick him out. The kids? They didn't do anything wrong. They'd be fine. They can do what they want about their father, but they're not in trouble.

As for myself? I'd probably just get super pissed and stay that way for a while, and just put more time and energy into whatever job I have. ...And then go the gym and physically beat the anger out of myself. ...And then I'd probably get sick from exhaustion and veg out at home for a while. I'd probably never talk to the "friend" or "husband" again and continue living my life completely guilt free.