Oh wow then! That's really bad for the Muslim to hide their religion or be assimilitated. Muslims have to tell the Non-Muslims and its a must. Also ull get a reward from God by teaching them the knowledge. Where u live if I must ask? And I am really hating this plan for burning the holy book of Islam. And no, we kind of talk. For example/ If i liked someone and he liked me back, then he come and ask for my parents confimation as well as my dad for his dad to know each other. then when they both agreed, we engage which will hav time for both of us to learn about each other. No sex when engaging. Once u marry him, you will be his forever and happil ever after. Hope I explained more now. Its really good and we like to protect our reputation and virginity so that my reputation won't be bad in front of million people for ex. like oh she's a slut or what not lol.