Keyori I see what your saying.. I asked him and he said he knew it was cheating with that kiss to horo and he said he was sorry he said he stoped himself from doing anything else with her and deleted her..

well he knows what he did was wrong.. so I think I should give him another chance.. our stuation is very different from most peoples and I dont mean just the long distence thing. (yes we have met in rl before.) well I think given this info he has given me I can going to give him another chance. but just ONE! since this is the 2ed form of cheating he does done. and what strawberry said I agree with as well since it was so long apart from the last time. I feel this was a bad thought on his part and he is sinserly sorry for it. but I still have a few things to sort out but this is my desintion.

thank you everyone for the help and ideas!