*bows* Thank you all for not treating me like I'm some kind of Alien. It's a lot harder to talk about stuff like this when it's not looked upon with much thought. Honestly. I think it's better. Afterall, when mono partners cheat... they often don't tell their partners. I know this from experience. I'd much rather know for certain who my partner(s) are sleeping with and make certain they're using protection. At least I have a little control in the matter too because that's how ours is setup. No one necessarily has power of veto, but we listen to and respect the other's decisions.