Dar

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Hi. c: I'm Dar. I thought that it would be polite of me to introduce myself to those who don't know me, and maybe help anyone who is curious figure out why I created this thread.

I'm your average twenty-two year old wife and mother. I live with six other adults in a very small and cramped house. In this house, there are three dogs, three cats and one seven month old baby. It is likely the craziest, rowdiest house on the east cost.

I was raised to respect my elders, to mind my Ps and Qs, to study first and play later. I was discouraged to stay out late, or to spend time around questionable individuals. There was never a time that I lied to my parents, or that I did not heed their warnings. I was a B student, and I spent a majority of my time playing sports.

I was a social butterfly that fluttered around the wall flowers.

There is no real transition from then to now. I still hold onto the same respect, patience and humility that my parents raised me to have. I do not delight in the company of ne'er-do-wells, and I strive to be the very best human being that I can be.

My husband is my dominant. He introduced me to this world over a year and a half ago, and I took to it like a moth to the flame. Originally, it was merely an interest in the why, and then it became more about the who. I read, I studied... I discovered. It was fascinating.

I experimented. I liked it. I kept doing it, and here I am today.

Just as sweet and as good as I have ever been.

BDSM isn't just a hobby for me, it's a lifestyle. I go through every single day as a submissive. I address my husband as my dominant. I surround myself by people who are also participants in the BDSM lifestyle because they understand my lifestyle choices better than anyone, and they won't accuse my husband of misogyny. They see me as the strong woman that I am in spite of my role.

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