I always use "they" or "it" for babies. Always. I don't even care how gendered their parents are raising them. I don't care what they tell me to call them. Monty Python had this figured out better than most people for a comedy sketch and that's sad.

Cloud and I are going to raise any kids we may have or adopt with the encouragement to find and be themselves. They'll have unisex names and our blessing if they ever decide to change them. Their room will be painted by us having a paint fight against white walls. They will get a little bit of everything from every category of things and be allowed to choose their own favorites. They'll be allowed to take the lead in the toy store and the only limits we'll place are on price.

The only activity they'll be required to do outside of school is learn at least one martial art of their choice so they can kick the ass of anyone who tries to tell them this is wrong. Okay, maybe not actually be so aggressive - but really we want them to be able to protect themselves against the jerkwads in the world who don't want anyone to exist outside of their narrow-minded view of things.