11-06-2013, 02:32 PM
Myself an Oz are very contrasting people in some ways. We have very different likes and dislikes about things, and although we were brought up in very similar fashions, there are key things that i disagree with, and he disagrees with about how i was brought up, which for some reason i can't quite place has a lot to do with life...Mostly because of how he thinks i should deal with my anxiety and depression, and how i think it should be, things like that...That's caused some friction in the past.
I think the thing that keeps us viable is the fact we're so opposite we complement most of the time. We can give each other very rounded views about why we like X or Y or why we think what we do of X or Y. However neither of us really steps down from a debate when defending our viewpoints so learning to deal with that kind of confrontation and environment where compromise isn't really an option might prove difficult as we get older and move forward as a couple.
Personality wise, and in terms of moral opinion we're really similar, which certainly helps bring us together. We've got a lot of similar views on topics, issues, and types of people, so even though we might go round in circles sometimes, when we really need to back each other up we can quite effectively.
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