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thelettervee
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03-03-2014, 06:45 PM
Thank you all.
I had a long talk with my boyfriend about what has been going on. He still has troubling listening to all that has gone on in my life, but we focused the conversation to our stand on "cheating" and "flirting".
He believes compliments are not really flirting as long as it does not go on to insinuate anything sexual or romantic, which is very reasonable. i reassured him that i do not go out and meet people privatly or make suspicious plans with anyone. Also pointed out that I always put him first and gave him my full attention as oppose to continuing conversations with other people. At first he was ify since he has been cheated on countless times from previous girlfriends.
I appreciate your advice and I am thankful he and I had this needed talk. I can carry on with the compliments and making people feel special as long as it is only that. Any and all romantisizing and thinking it may be anything more will stop.
(how do i make this thread state that it is resolved? )
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