I... I've not decided for either of them.
I HAVE thought up intricate lore for my female's race (which may or may not be influenced by a race from a video game, although even if it is, I just took few concepts... >_>)
Also, to keep with the humanoid alien theme in my characters this MAYBE will be the guy:
Or this...
Or maybe this one...
They all lack badass armor, though, so I may continue looking.