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Originally Posted by bluerockman
Indeed. It's just, ugh, sometimes I feel like there's better methods, but I'm often not allowed to intervene. I know I grew to resent my dad after years and years of being berated by him for the mistakes I made, even feeling like he looks for the pettiest of mistakes just to berate me over. That sort of thing is what I look to avoid.
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Then stand up for yourself and your sister. You are an adult now, yeah? Let him know how you feel and you won't stand up for him treating you that way any longer. It is understandable that you resent him after the way that he's treated you, but maybe it's time to put your foot down and let him how how you truly feel? Just an idea. Better than not doing anything, at least to me. He shouldn't be allowed to treat you both that way. It isn't fair to either of you.