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Originally Posted by Fuu-Chan
Trust me none of that actually matters. If I don't dress 'modest' then It's bad.
I dress in skirts and dresses above my knees because I finally feel good about myself. Throughout junior high all I did was cover and hide my body behind jeans and long hoodies that didn't compliment the good figure I had. And now that I see how cute of a body i have and how I can work really cute clothes I get told "You really need longer dresses."
Also long dresses do not look good on me. It's kind of saying my body is an object and I should hide it. Doesn't matter if I've spent most of my life ashamed of my body and hid it for so long. I hid it because of many things.
And I am finally getting rid of my skin condition so i can actually show off my arms again.
I am not even in this religion thing.
I'm an atheist. Obviously he doesn't know that because he'd get my grandmother and lecture me.
Not like they don't lecture me enough. she even told me I should be doing my dad's laundry.
Um..I already cook for him, help him with groceries and do chores around the house.
And he does his own laundry.
I am not his god damn house keeper.
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Modest? I mean, if you have a chest then clothes aren't exactly going to be modest xD
Especially if you have a booty!
I like skirts/dresses above my knees or to my knees as well. I don't see anything wrong in that, which leaves no argument for him/them to degrade you. If it helps your self-esteem and your well-being then they should support you and stop trying to forbid you wearing modern clothing.
I understand what you went through with school.
I only wore t-shirts, shorts ' n ' things that really didn't show off my body figure because I was self-conscious.
I actually had the school board literally tell me I couldn't wear short skirts because it was inappropriate for me. I wanted to start dressing cute myself and wore a medium-sized black skirt to school one day but since I got a more developed body than the other middle school kids - they said it wasn't right for me. My mom had to go in to meet the school board and told them off because they didn't enforce it on the other girls since their parents funded the school.
eh, long dresses aren't all that pretty anyway unless they're like ball-gowns.
I like short dresses myself and if you have the body to wear'em then wear'em.
Congrats on your skin! I'm happy for you
If they were any kind of family, they'd be happy for your improved confidence in yourself. But it seems they have a old-fashioned view of family? If he can move his legs and arms, he can very well do his own laundry. You're definitely not his maid nor born to be one.
I'm sorry you have to deal with that kind of poop.
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Originally Posted by Ava The Vampire
We're having loads of snow here too. :)
I like it, but it was terrible driving home!
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No snow here xDD
We got cold weather again but it's getting warmish?
Supposed to rain on Easter, though