Kaderin Triste: No I totally understand and agree. Like I said, aces/aros do get at least some bullshit, so that's valid to me. I fully agree ace people and aro people do get harassed and oppressed. It's all valid and you're valid. I'm not big on oppression olympics at all, but I fully understand what you mean about people getting weirdly into it.

Also, cis hetero allies are the least of my worries. I of course appreciate them, but I don't make spaces for them. I'm more worried about maintaining inclusivity for people who ACTUALLY catch bullshit.