Yeah, I've been on the receiving end of some of these "promotions" that you didn't ask for and don't get a raise for. I felt like it was very surprise sprung on me against my will, and that can be very hard. Especially if you don't feel ready. I'm not sure if you like reading but I've seen some books out there. I have one, Leadership 2.0, that I've been meaning to read. I'm not sure if it's any good but it seems pretty short and well structured so we'll see.