It's a bit unfair, but it's still just pixels. I try not to let it get to me. However, two friends of mine have the rare head-bands, but they hardly log on. I'd ask if I could have the items, but I doubt they'd give the head-bands to me. That and I'm not entirely sure if the second friend still has the angelic head band (which I gave to her because at the time, I was a newb).

I hate having stuff in my inventory that I rarely use.