Ugh, I know how it is. It's even worse for me 'cause my mother was like, NEVER there and then decides to show up here & there between when I was 16 up to now & she's trying to be a mother. No. Not when I'm already grown up & in my own mind set.

I've had ambitions to tell her to shut the hell up. I kinda did once & she kinda beat me up. So next time I won't have my guard down about her & she'll get hers.