He sounds like he is playing you my dear, he may say all these things, but as long as he is with her, and the fact that he has cheated on you, then he is up to no good. I have a friend who's been through the same thing, cept she made the mistake of trying to be friends with her ex, and she ended up being the "other woman" for a night. You don't need to let him get chu into that kind of guilt.

My pie is yummy. lol.