@hummy - we do, actually my husband and his father our equal owners but the one guy has been working here 3 times as long as me so he acts like a butt sometimes regardless of who I am and usually he is nice so I don't make a big deal about it but it is still annoying. He would have been stunned if I hit him. I don't think he thinks about how his actions affect other people. If I really wanted to throw my weight around, I could complain to my husband but I am trying to be the bigger person....but oh sometimes, how I want to be small. xD
I'm sorry to hear about your kittie! =O Do you know what is wrong?