"I've always wondered what that would be like, a relationship between the two, but that aside I am sorry to bring up painful memories at a party, I'll drop the subject, you are you, that is that." he said smiling apologetically. "This garden is really well kept, thats quite impressive for the size of it." he said trying to change the subject sensing she didn't want to dwell on that subject. "Do you come out to the garden often?"