hummy: you have a lot going on that would make anyone sad!
Something would have to be wrong with you if you weren't sad right now!
I can only suggest some kind of distraction to take your mind off things.
When you are feeling up to it, I am curious about what hummydad's bad news is.
I wish I could give you a shoulder to cry on and a hug and a hand to hold.
Please know that I'm thinking of you!