I turn into myself and kind of become a shell.
Never really dealt with anything on this level, but I have dealt with some not so pretty things and the last time - the only thing kept me going was my daughter.
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Originally Posted by Silver Storm
I don't know. My first thought is no because she lives with her mother and Jacob's older brother Jason. Jason has never moved out and I think he is like 35.
Yes they do and I should probably try and talk to her. Its just hard when I barely have the energy. And some days it just hurts so much to talk about Jacob and here the stories.
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Don't push yourself, as everyone is different. That's understandable that it still hurts.
It's all so fresh. If you can find the energy, maybe explain how you see things, framing it as I statements, so she understands where you're coming from, and that she's allowed to grieve in her own way, but letting her know how it's affecting you.