"I think victim may depend on a matter of perspective. Others besides me may see you as a victim, even if you do not. And that may be out of pity. Or it may be because all those who are harmed are in some ways victims. Whether they feel that or not." He paused, his whole body serene despite the serious nature of their conversation, "And perhaps I do pity you in some way. But I do not feel that that is a bad thing. It is natural to feel sorry for those who have been given a worse outlook than yourself. It's a way of caring."