Better that you learn from the bad than dwell on it and keep making the same mistakes, I know a few relatives of mine like that too. You're doing great :3

Yeah at least in my sake they've never been around or been there for me anyway so I'm not losing much. I just turned 24 last week and I've made it this far without them. And it's a good decision for me because they pretty much admitted that they've hated me because I'm dad's "new family". (half brothers) Like I could help being born It's another one of those "their loss not mine" situations so I'm okay with it. It's better for my mental health to not deal with them.