I should have specified that I'm *thankful* we've come a long way from the days where being married automatically meant consent.

Yeah... or like, if I consent but I'm not 100% in the mood, I don't think I automatically have the right to later backtrack and say that I only consented because I felt like I should, or because of external pressures, it would be a very slippery slope otherwise.

I wish people would be honest with their intentions, because there are lots of bad people in the world. Even though there are some evil people out there who would leverage the #metoo movement for their own gain, there are plenty of women who fight tooth and nail to be believed, and I'm positive there are many legitimate cases where a woman was pressured to consent and it should constitute rape.