I am sorry if this is offensive to some people I don't mean any offense but this is my opinion. Though I am hoping to change it.
This is what I'm hoping to change. I have absolutely no faith in people. I hate people so much. They are untrustworthy, love drama and all they do is hurt people. This is my experience. But I know there are people not at all like that but still. What should I do about my intense dislike of mankind? I don't want to hate people forever because that is going to cause major problems with geting a job and stuff. So please help, that is if you want to...

I think the first step to restore your social connection with people is to accept that they're humans; that they have faults, they won't always be faithful, and sometimes they will hurt you.

The sooner you accept the bad about people, the quicker you will understand and appreciate the good parts of having them in your life. Realizing that you can be the same way as well wouldn't hurt either. Being self-aware, and analyzing what mistakes you have/will make will help you identify with others.

How would I go about restoring connections with people?

Stop hating people first? >.>'

But there's a problem with that. I don't know how to. I know I'm annoyingly uh whatever the word is

Well besides the whole 'trustworthy' issue, what else annoys you about them?

Well... I don't like how people act, I can't understand how they can openly laugh and scream etc. I don't like how most people think, it baffles me how they could even think things the way they do. which I might add which you may have guessed caused a fear which I just now relised.

Originally Posted by Deviant

I think the first step to restore your social connection with people is to accept that they're humans; that they have faults, they won't always be faithful, and sometimes they will hurt you.

The sooner you accept the bad about people, the quicker you will understand and appreciate the good parts of having them in your life. Realizing that you can be the same way as well wouldn't hurt either. Being self-aware, and analyzing what mistakes you have/will make will help you identify with others.

This is the best reply!
But I'd like to add that doing this takes time.
You have to study and watch people to understand a lot of them.
So it's good to be careful of your interactions with others and "monitor" their response to you. Body language says everything!

Originally Posted by NoisyCricket

This is the best reply!
But I'd like to add that doing this takes time.
You have to study and watch people to understand a lot of them.
So it's good to be careful of your interactions with others and "monitor" their response to you. Body language says everything!

I know back to uselessness but I can't talk to them because I don't trust them, they scare me and annoy me... Jeeze I'm helpful. I will try it I guess but I don't know how I'm going to do that due to the fact of scared and shyness blah my brain hurts. I just need something to start on.

It's okay, i generally dislike humans as well. I say HUMANS because in my eyes there is a distinct difference, people have personalities or personas, humans refer to the species of primate. Usually when I say "human" I refer to one that doesn't think deeply and just goes about doing whatever without taking the time to think outside the box, rather out of the animal mind that every human has. You acknowledge that not everyone is a rude, chauvinistic human. This is a good start. Second, one must realize how much of a rude, heartbreaker they really are by generalizing humans as a whole. My suggestion is to sit in a public place and take a look into the crowd. Take the first one you see, ask yourself why exactly it is that you don't like them. What DO you like about them? Keep analyzing and you may learn something about what there is to like about humans. Look around and see if anyone is thinking about their actions or reasoning them out. Above all, you must study them as deeply as you can. You don't need to remember exactly every detail you think about everyone, just remember whatever you want to remember or what may help you restore your faith in humans. Now, if you want, you can do this as a social thing, start talkng to others and see what you can pull from them. Here's where you said you were concerned, jobs. When someone gives an interview, analyze them and see what THEY are like so you know exactly what to say.

In short, you can hate them all you want, but you can hate them and be social if you know how to read a human.

I hope this helps and it's not just a bunch of nonesuch.

Yet here you are..
You might find hope in humans yet.
I've been a dedicated misanthrope more than once.

Why do you talk as if you're not part of mankind yourself? ¦:^0

"House, it's not Lupus!" - Foreman

!JOKE!

well, i guess i know how you feel sometimes, when the people around act like total morons and end up to be unreliable douche bags with nothing else to do but make life more unbearable. but lets face it, they will always be there. true, they may move out, or you will, but someone more or else the same will be there to replace them.

but it doesn't mean you have to misanthropic and reject people. its all about allowing people a chance to prove you wrong and at times, prove themselves wrong.

Join a volunteer group. Seriously, you want to learn how to love, they would be more than the best to teach you.

Originally Posted by Huffie

Why do you talk as if you're not part of mankind yourself? ¦:^0

First off I talk as if I am not apart of mankind because I don't think I am. Not saying that I think I am better than man its more like I'm not one of "them". I can't think, I can't act and i don't feel like the majority of mankind. I just don't feel that I am capable of doing such though I have decided to at least try...

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Originally Posted by Runes

Join a volunteer group. Seriously, you want to learn how to love, they would be more than the best to teach you.

Runes it's not that I don't know how to love its just that I don't like people. I do have friends and I do have a family but outside of the few close friends I have I generally dislike people. And where I live there is no such thing as a volunteer group unless your on probation. There is a bumper sticker here that says "Come on vacation, leave on probation". So there isn't anything for me to do like that unless I get into trouble which I might add I am not willing to do sorry if what I said was offensive

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Originally Posted by kollusim

Yet here you are..
You might find hope in humans yet.
I've been a dedicated misanthrope more than once.

I do not understand what you mean. Do you mind repeating but differently?

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Originally Posted by drachenlady

It's okay, i generally dislike humans as well. I say HUMANS because in my eyes there is a distinct difference, people have personalities or personas, humans refer to the species of primate. Usually when I say "human" I refer to one that doesn't think deeply and just goes about doing whatever without taking the time to think outside the box, rather out of the animal mind that every human has. You acknowledge that not everyone is a rude, chauvinistic human. This is a good start. Second, one must realize how much of a rude, heartbreaker they really are by generalizing humans as a whole. My suggestion is to sit in a public place and take a look into the crowd. Take the first one you see, ask yourself why exactly it is that you don't like them. What DO you like about them? Keep analyzing and you may learn something about what there is to like about humans. Look around and see if anyone is thinking about their actions or reasoning them out. Above all, you must study them as deeply as you can. You don't need to remember exactly every detail you think about everyone, just remember whatever you want to remember or what may help you restore your faith in humans. Now, if you want, you can do this as a social thing, start talkng to others and see what you can pull from them. Here's where you said you were concerned, jobs. When someone gives an interview, analyze them and see what THEY are like so you know exactly what to say.

In short, you can hate them all you want, but you can hate them and be social if you know how to read a human.

I hope this helps and it's not just a bunch of nonesuch.

I will try what you say. But I also want to not hate people I really don't.

First off I talk as if I am not apart of mankind because I don't think I am. Not saying that I think I am better than man its more like I'm not one of "them". I can't think, I can't act and i don't feel like the majority of mankind. I just don't feel that I am capable of doing such though I have decided to at least try...

I'm sorry, do you know the majority of mankind personally? :^/ I think when you start to classify things as 'me vs. them' you're getting into dangerous territory. I think maybe you need to figure out why you hate everyone else before you can get over this, maybe see a therapist of somekind? It sounds like you're going to need someone to talk this through with you and really figure why you feel these unpleasant feelings for people you don't even know so intensely.

Ok, You are in Life issues. Volunteering maybe not be physically available to you but here it is. Giving advice and Support to those that need it is a away to learn how to deal with people and not dislike them. Trust me I understand the dislike, I work in retail. People can be horrid and stupid creatures but there is always one that shines out. Use this forum to benefit you as well as other and once people see your advice and start using you it then you'll learn to have more faith in people. Really, it's the little things that cause you to faith in a person.

Originally Posted by Runes

Ok, You are in Life issues. Volunteering maybe not be physically available to you but here it is. Giving advice and Support to those that need it is a away to learn how to deal with people and not dislike them. Trust me I understand the dislike, I work in retail. People can be horrid and stupid creatures but there is always one that shines out. Use this forum to benefit you as well as other and once people see your advice and start using you it then you'll learn to have more faith in people. Really, it's the little things that cause you to faith in a person.

I know that is the reason I came to this forum I really am trying. I am the way I am. I am not trying anything just different I will try what everyone says

What you are describing is a sociopathic disorder. You have to see each person as an individual, not lump them all together. there are good people and bad people in the world, and this world includes you.
I think what you really need is help from a professional psychologist, if you are true in what you are telling us, you are beyond just asking for advice in an avatar issues forum.