Okay. So I need SOMEONE'S help on a little problem I have. So, I love my boyfriend to pieces. I can't live without him. But I get so scared whenever he kisses me or gets close? There's nothing I should be scared about! He's sweet, cute, funny, and kind. O.o He's understanding too! I just...don't know why I get so scared. :( Can some one help?

Is it possible you are feeling uncomfortable, more than scared? Is this your first relationship, and how long have you been with him? If it's your first relationship and you've never kissed anyone before, that may be it.

I was like that with my husband when we first started dating. He was my first serious relationship and I would always get nervous and really mess things up. I talked to him about it and he was supportive of me through it since he was pretty much as nervous as I was but just was not as awkward about it as me. Just keep communication open and do not do anything unless YOU want to do it.

If you love something let it go.

-once said by a big jerk.

See that's the thing. When we're just pecking lips, then it's comfortable...and I know what to do. But it's when we make out. I've know him for about three or four months now. And this is basically my first real relationship. My last one was ALMOST a real one. But it wasn't. So, my boyfriend was my first kiss. But I only get to see him when I'm with my friends. And what's stupid is that I get nervous period. And at times, I do feel uncomfortable...but other than that, there should be nothing I shouldn't be uncomfortable about! O-O

Ah...I was kind of that way at first with my boyfriend. But we haven't even...made-out yet. And I know he wants to but it just hasn't happened yet. I really can't help you. But what I can help you on is that you love him. He loves you. If he really loves you, then he would respect what you want and not think about what he wants unless you respect what he wants and not what you want. You get where I'm going with this? Talk with him about it in person, okay?Maybe some type of understanding will come into play. :) But what matters is that it feels right to you.

I would for sure talk to him and let him know that you haven't really done anything before and are nervous. No shame in taking baby steps. =)

"if its love let it go and if it comes then its bound to stay" i just wanna say it its from "How i use to be" by Kirk Franklin

Originally Posted by DarckGodessa

But I only get to see him when I'm with my friends.

Could it be your friends who make you nervous?

Lillian: It feels SO right.....though. <:p

Mystic: I talked to him about it and before our first kiss, he KNEW it was my first and that I was a 100% virgin at the time. xp

Mini: Ha =) thanks.

Cherry: At times, him and I are alone. And although I trust him, I get nervous about being alone to him. And he promised he wouldn't try anything unless I asked him to. xp

Don't rush it.
You sound like you're young. You'll grow in to being comfortable.