well all my friends know tht i have lost my best friend by suicide, ive attempted suicide, and that i have been raped. they know how bad it bothers me for it to be talked about around me. but yet they keep doing it. yes to them its just them makein fun, but to me its mocking me. like they are saying 'haha u lost a friend to suicide i dont give a fuck' 'you were raped, but who hassnt been?' ive actually been told tht. smh.

well now i have a friend jokeing around about suicide. he thinks its funny to talk about the shiit around me. cuz i guess he likes to see me upset. or sumthin. i jt cnt stand the thought of loseing any one else to suicide. n i guess thts what i realized with myself. whats the beneifit of killing urself?

i just wanna bust this guy in the mouth...

First of all, I'm sorry for your loss.

Second, get rid of those people. They aren't your friends if they're mistreating you.
I might not know what a true friend is but a decent human being wouldn't joke about that.

Hope it works out for you.

Sorry about the loss of your friend, and the fact that there are those idiots out there who have to resort to crimes for "satisfaction".



Im with Elluh about ditching those "friends", since they honestly arent friends if they know they are making you upset by joking about that stuff while you are around. The only thing I can say, other than to ditch them, is seriously talk to them about not talking about that stuff with you around. And if they persist, or laugh at you while you say that, just get up, and never speak to them again. A true friend would understand, and do their best to be there for you. Ive had "friends" who joked about suicide, first time I pretty much asked them how their parents/family/friends/etc would feel if they did that, second time I told them not to talk about it, third time well, I havent seen those people since then(other than random messages on facebook, or texts).

It does sound like you need to find some new friends, but that isn't easy. I would try going somewhere new where people take things like that seriously. Is there a church in your area with young people you can relate to? I hope things get better for you soon.

i have recentally had a nervous break down. they dont seem to realize how bad things affect me. i have many issues and am bipolar. so right after the nervous break down i just went off on them. im not in contact with them at the moment i told them not to talk to me again, they were nothing to me, they cant think about anyones feelings but themselves, the world does not revolve around their stupid bullshit etc etc. and yes ik thts wrong but i say things without thinking, and out of anger. this isnt the first time ive went off on them so they no not to take things i say to heart specially when im angry. so in due time i will be like nothing ever happened

I'm sorry they're being jerks about such serious things. They may only be joking, but it's still a dick move to do something like that. I've honestly been through similar situations, and been joked at the same way.

I would say find someone to hang with who's not going to treat you that way. It's wrong. It's not okay to joke about things like that, especially to someone who has been through it. In some cases it's even really abusive. I know they're probably not trying to hurt you, but it's happening, and it needs to stop.

yea i know

Good. I don't want you to get hurt by people being jerks. I've been there and it sucks.

its a thing im used to. n yea ur right i need new friends or at least get rid of the ones causeing the problems. maybe this is y im always depressed or in a shitty mood.

Sounds like it might be the case. I remember when I hung out with those kind of people. I'm a much happier person now that I don't.

ok i guess ill get rid of em

If they will stop doing it, then by all means don't, but if they're just gonna keep hurting you...

Originally Posted by Elluh

First of all, I'm sorry for your loss.

Second, get rid of those people. They aren't your friends if they're mistreating you.
I might not know what a true friend is but a decent human being wouldn't joke about that.

Hope it works out for you.

That. (really have nothing else to say that hasn't been said.)

Aww Sweetie, I am so sorry to hear that. Chin up, I'm sure things will get better. And I apologize in advance if what I say is something you don't want to hear right now. Those people saying those things to you, or joking about things that are obviously no joke, aren't your friends. At least they aren't real friends. You deserve so much better than that, you need to be respected. It isn't funny that you or anyone else has had to go through such horrible things and it is no joking matter to sit back and laugh about. I do know that it must be so tempting to want to strike out these people, but just remember that it isn't worth it. However, you should probably sit down and talk to them, if you haven't already. Try to calmly explain that you honestly do not think their 'jokes' aren't funny, rather you find them quite hurtful and even insulting. If they don't listen, then stick to people who can respect that you don't find things like that funny, and who will be there to comfort you and show you respect. I hope things get better for you, keep on smiling if you can! -lots of cyber hugs-

Originally Posted by xXkOoKiE_mOnZtErXx

i told them not to talk to me again, they were nothing to me, they cant think about anyones feelings but themselves, the world does not revolve around their stupid bullshit etc etc. and yes ik thts wrong but i say things without thinking, and out of anger. this isnt the first time ive went off on them so they no not to take things i say to heart specially when im angry. so in due time i will be like nothing ever happened

But it isn't really wrong. Well, perhaps the 'nothing to me' is inaccurate, as you considered them friends, but all in all what you said needed to be said, you'd been wounded by them, and when an animal is wounded, it's natural that it will lash out. It serves as a reality check to them about the cruelness of their behaviour over all. I hope they do take it to heart this time, because then they might realize they can't treat people like that. Don't feel bad about this. But yeah, don't actually punch them.

ive not talked to them for awhile now. they dnt even know if im ok since the tornado. they called but i havent answered so yea :/

Oh. You might want to reassure them of that. But there's no need to restart something harmful.