just had this question on my mind

1) was your first kiss.
snog Or kissing with tongs.
and first sexual intercourse.
important to you? would you kiss anybody for your first time?
do you care about your first sexual intercourse or do/did you just want to do it.

personally i think that all of these are special as they make you more confident, i have kissed and made out with someone but that was in year 7, i want to make my sexual intercourse really romantic and special and to make sure that i truly like that person im with......

sooo... what do you think ?

My first kiss was just a kiss. No snogging or tongue involved. Just a simple smooch.

My first time having sex was special to me. It was with my first girlfriend, when she came across the country to be with me after an accident.

I believe sex is something special, but I don't look down on people who have sex because they want to, with anyone they want to. It's their body. They know they run the higher risk of contracting diseases or getting pregnant having sex with multiple people, multiple times. I won't feel bad if they get something. But that's on them. If that's what they want to do, I do not have any room to judge.

All my firsts were shared with my partner on our engagement.
I don't think he valued it as much on his side but he did place tremendous value receiving it from me and I also did too in saving that for him.

My first kiss (well the first proper one that I count) proper snogging, tongues and all. To be honest, I don't really place a lot of value into kissing. A kiss is just a kiss after all. There's a load of people I've kissed that I can't even remember their names. So to be honest, no, my first kiss wasn't important. I liked it and it was romantic and everything, it's just not something that I think I place that much hold on. Also, I'm not entirely sure what you mean by would you kiss someone on your first time, so I'll just ignore that.

As for the first time I had sex, again it wasn't too important or special (in fact my first time sucked in all honesty) but I don't regret it at all. I loved the person I lost my virginity to with all my heart, and I'm glad I got to share that with him at the time. However, I don't really see virginity as something that needs to be saved for someone (my own personal opinion and I have absolutely no issue with those that disagree, so please don't jump down my throat about that) but I see it as just a bit of fun. If you love the person, great, it makes it all the better. If it's a one night stand, great, you can rest easy knowing you can get as kinky as you like and never see them again.

Now, I'm well aware that this makes me sound like a total slut, but I'm honestly not. D;

c: Annapii hasn't kissed yet. And I'd like my first time fucking to be something special.

I'm kinda like the holy grail. The motherfucking holy grail doesn't appear in a flash of light and bite you in the butt. No, you gotta go find and earn that holy grail. Sorry Lancelot.

Originally Posted by Dystopia

c: Annapii hasn't kissed yet. And I'd like my first time fucking to be something special.

That made me LOL. I'm sorry, I don't mean it in an offending way. But you said "first time fucking to be special" and it just made me laugh. Fucking is typically an offensive way to say sex. You'd think the "special" term would be "make love" or something cheesey like that. But you went with 'fucking'. And it amused me.

Originally Posted by PWEEP

That made me LOL. I'm sorry, I don't mean it in an offending way. But you said "first time fucking to be special" and it just made me laugh. Fucking is typically an offensive way to say sex. You'd think the "special" term would be "make love" or something cheesey like that. But you went with 'fucking'. And it amused me.

I'm a romantic. I'm also a very crass romantic. C:

XD are you 4 male or female?

I'm female. Not entirely sure how relevant gender is though...

Hmm... I don't really remember my first kiss because it was was almost 6 years ago now... I was 16 at the time. Anyways, I remember it being nice but I didn't see the appeal of it. Although my second boyfriend, the kiss with him was amazing. I had my first intercourse with my second boyfriend 5 years ago, we're still together now. It was not a very nice event, though really funny. When we were you know his fat old dog rammed his way into the locked bedroom and scared the cr*p out of us... So the moment was kinda ruined... lol

was your first kiss.

First kiss was to my ex-wife. It was a simple nervous not really worth it.

snog Or kissing with tongs.

Did so as an experiment. I don't really like it. Also ex-wife.

and first sexual intercourse.

Boring, honestly "didn't feel a thing" is one way to put it... and I did almost all the work... =.=
Also ex-wife.

Do I regret them? All 3.

Originally Posted by BlizzardPixie

When we were you know his fat old dog rammed his way into the locked bedroom and scared the cr*p out of us... So the moment was kinda ruined... lol

Oh my goodness! I laughed so hard at that haha

@ Tea in a Bucket - Oh my gosh I did not see that. That would make for a hilarious moment to laugh about later XD

Haha it certainly would! I don't really have any funny stories. My ex threw his back out when we first started dating, but that's about as funny as it gets

Ah... well my marriage wasn't all that exciting so nothing fun ever happened. All we had was a cat that wanted to watch @_@

I can't really complain about mine, no weird cats or anything haha

My first kiss happened to be in second grade with another girl; my best friend. The boys all dared us to do it so of course- Two little girls kissing in second grade at the lunch table.

However my first real kiss, I mean the kinda kiss that gives you butterflies was when my boyfriend and I met for the first time. We dated online for a little over a year before meeting up and that first kiss was magical <3

My first Sexual experience wasn't special at all since it was forced when I was only 14ish. But years later the first time making love was the special one. Wouldn't trade that moment for the world.

My first kiss happened when I was twelve. I was french kissed by a boy at my friend's birthday party. It was a truth or dare game. It doesn't have any special meaning or significance.

My first kiss was on a roller coaster at Six Flags in 7th grade.
It was special, because me and that boy really liked each other.
My first sexual experience was really special too. Me and my boyfriend of one year finally decided to do it on our anniversary when I was 16. I'm still dating him another year later <3

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Originally Posted by Absurditea

Haha it certainly would! I don't really have any funny stories. My ex threw his back out when we first started dating, but that's about as funny as it gets

BOY HAVE I GOT STORIES FOR YOU GUYS lol

I wanna hear your story! haha

Originally Posted by Absurditea

I wanna hear your story! haha

Okay, BUT IT'S GRAPHIC lol

Me and my boyfriend were "doin' it" at his place. He has a futon for sleeping on and this particular time we were too lazy to put it down. So here we are, basically banging on a small sofa when he slips (we were in a certain ANIMAL BEHAVIOR-LIKE position) falls off the bed, pulling me down with him on his carpet. Well with the way I landed on his crotch I sort of maybe "fractured" his dick. Since it has soft bone mass in it, like a nose. Anyway, he cried for almost 30 minutes between me saying sorry and trying to get him to put ice on it, to no avail. I ended up driving him to the E.R., THAT was a funny story to try and explain to the nurses!

First kiss was May of this year...and it was bad. x' D
And honestly really funny.
But somehow still with the person. I let him know it was bad too.
It was just...really...messy?
> w >;

@ Popcorn - That's not too bad. At least (from what you said) you didn't miss

Originally Posted by BetwixtCannabal

Okay, BUT IT'S GRAPHIC lol

Me and my boyfriend were "doin' it" at his place. He has a futon for sleeping on and this particular time we were too lazy to put it down. So here we are, basically banging on a small sofa when he slips (we were in a certain ANIMAL BEHAVIOR-LIKE position) falls off the bed, pulling me down with him on his carpet. Well with the way I landed on his crotch I sort of maybe "fractured" his dick. Since it has soft bone mass in it, like a nose. Anyway, he cried for almost 30 minutes between me saying sorry and trying to get him to put ice on it, to no avail. I ended up driving him to the E.R., THAT was a funny story to try and explain to the nurses!

Oh my goddd! That's hilarious. xD Hope he's okay now haha

@ Bet - I've seen something like that... o.o and men think landing on it hurts...