Ok I have a problem some of my friends are judgeing me to quickly and they got the wrong impresion that I was a bad guy in all. The story was I just vollenteered to help out with this con and the person who was in charge didn't give me enought info or stuff to work with.
So I tried to ask others for help and find out what was going on plus I was makeing suggestion and throwing out ideas to help out in all , and in the end they told the person in charge of the con that I was being to nosy, rude and other stuff as well thus drawing to concultion that I was a bad person and should be taken off the vollenteer list for good.
When I got the news a few days later that I was taken off the list andI was upset and asked why, the person in charge told me that I was a rude and mean to the others. I told the person in charge that I wasn't like that and they jumped the gun before they drawn their concultion. The person in charge didn't believe me and took their side and not mine.
Has this ever happen to you?

I have had people presume too much a lot and my attitude is "their loss". You get to a point where you just don't give a damn.

I guess that's because I've had 26 years of that crap. Tell people that you have Aspergers Syndrome and all of a sudden you're a drooling retard that's good for nothing in their eyes, which is the complete opposite of what Aspergers Syndrome is.

Go and help at another con and make it more successful that that one.

well not like that.. but people do tend to judge me by my looks. they either think I'm a total bitch or a ... total slut :B so yeah. nice. -.-

You should report their actions to the Better Business Bureau or something of the like in your area. Let them know hwo horribly they treated you, and that you were unfairly removed from the Volunteer list.

People suck that way. hello, we are all guilty of judging someone. Lanackse's right, tell people something about you and they twist it around. I told someone I have a fat cat and I'm a bad pet owner. Tell them my grandpa's in the hospital, instant sympathy for the bad pet owner. Duh du jour.