Ok so I'm the outcast of school.( had to get that straight right away) So pretty much no one. repeat NO ONe wants to even be remotly by me in any sense. And I got my hopes up and thought I had a chance to ask out this guy... (thanks sassy! I'm glade I tried) But I totally and utterly failed. And then so a day went by and I here nothing from him. Great:sarcasm:. And so there's a mass/ice cream socail everyone went to and I played saxaphone solo... Anyway so mass is over we all are getting ice cream and its freezing outside.. We're so smart:sarcasm:. And One of my vollyball teamates starts freaking because she has no date to homecoming... So I do what I do best... I consoled her and told her my perspective.. She was beutiful and if guys didn't see it they had problems... And then she told me the guy I like is asking out the NEW girl!!! My new friend and I told her how great he was... And I'm pretty sure he asked her.... When I had asked him.... I can't stop crying..

You like the guy? So what? Listen to me, who is a person too weird for any guy to get close to. Boys are stupid. I don't know you whatsoever, but I'm pretty sure that you must be a good person, and probably pretty too. If that guy doesn't want to go out with you, there isn't much you can do about it. Just move on, and I know how hard that is. I had a crush on a guy for a long time, rejected me, i got over it...after a couple of months.
So get up, slap yourself to stop your tears, and go buy some Ben and Jerry's ice cream for celebration of your freedom.

seconding little miss.

don't cry over someone you like. i'll tell you right now, you weren't going to marry this guy. you seem kind of contradicting as well, you have friends, but no one wants to be near you? over exaggeration, just a wee bit of one. don't worry. it'll pass. it's nothing omgmajor that your life is going to end over. i know it seems like it with all the grade-school drama.

it's probably not her, since she said she didn't have a date. if he asked her, wouldn't she have a date? or does she not like him?

My perspective, boys suck. I think kissing is great, but I wouldn't suggest getting into a relationship that is serious at the vague age I presume you to be. :D Props to you for asking him out though, and don't let one rejection from someone who can't appreciate you get you down. There will always be someone else, someone better.

Thank you for the advice and to clear up confusion I treat everyone as my 'friends' when i get the small chance to actually talk to someone. And to clear up this grade school thing I'm in high school. You know what. Nothing has changed but the fact that I'm finding it easier to talk to people.. a little... It still scares me but you know asking that guy had made me more brave to try... And i think anyway, that some upper classmen are starting to talk to me and like me as an actual friend. Thanks!

>_> personally I never had any feelings like that. I always was an outcast at school, but never really minded that, because managed to find friends outside it - going to music concerts, art shows etc. Plus the internet helps a lot.
Second thing I don't know why you should cry for somebody that has no feelings for you. For me making a bond between two persons takes time. You don't fall in love at the first sight. Well, you do, but that's more passion and it's never worth crying for.

Respect yourselve and always think that you can decide how to feel about others, not they.

Well that obviously proves what an a hole he is and you've saved your self some misery there hun. I bet if you;d gone out he;d have ended up using you anyway judging by the way he acted. Just bide your time and wait for the right guy to come along