Okay, so I've never had a Boyfriend. But I really want one. There are a few guys at school that I like, but I'm to shy to talk to them. Homecoming is friday, and I kindof want a date, but IDK how to ask them.....Help.

Eh, well imo, guys do not like desperate girls so just avoid acting like that.

But you can try to dress up in some cute clothing perhaps, maybe try to be a bit flirty to attract these guys' attention.

As for getting over shyness, the more comfortable you are the better.

Have you talked to any of these guys before? Are you friends or do you just know them but don't really talk them? It's really best to get to know a person before you do things like go on a date together.

I would say to just go up and talk to these guys to get to know them. Then see if you would really like to date them and then just ask. I understand being shy but i bet if you get to know them more you wouldn't be so uncomfortable and it will be easier to talk to them.

it's not always bad to be assertive. if you want to go to homecoming with someone, maybe consider just asking him. if you're too shy, that's okay--but if you really like a guy and want to date them, it's sometimes best to talk to them straight out instead of just flirting, especially if you're a naturally soft-spoken person.

all in all, don't change yourself in order to get guys. that's about the worst thing you could do; you may end up becoming someone you don't like. and no relationship is worth that.

Back in high school I was very upfront my junior year, most of them ended up in rejections and getting stood up but that just gave me all the courage to keep on trying. I stopped my senior year with the aggressiveness because I was already dating someone else.

Guys, even if they won't tell you, love powerful and independant women. So if you can be brave and accept the rejection, or accept the acception -- more power to you and in return, you'll be respected.

thanks

No problem ^-^