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Old 01-19-2010, 04:26 AM

My mother tends to call me weird things when shes drunk or really mad at me
shes called me a whore, slut, hooker, dumbass, bitch stuff like that and one time she called me a buffalolicker?

and a few occassions we almost end up in a fist fight
i would win im faster and at least three inches taller

question:
do you rents call you weird/meanish stuff?

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Old 01-19-2010, 05:00 AM

man my mum always calls me a spoilt little bitch.
and on the odd occasion she called me a slut :-( its not easy hahaha

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Old 01-19-2010, 05:07 AM

Hmmm, I guess you can say parents will call you names. =/ Mine does...and it is all in a foreign lanuage. :D

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Old 01-19-2010, 05:18 AM

My mother gets pretty rude, obnoxious and tries to pick a fight with me when she drinks, however I don't care anymore, I just ignore it. Used to bug me all the time when I was younger though not going to lie lol

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Old 01-19-2010, 05:29 AM

The only time I have experienced anything like this was one early morning I had forgotten to turn my alarm on and so I woke up too late to catch the bus to Astronomy and asked my mom for a ride. She got really pissed off even though this was a one time offense and I am not used to being up so early I have not had to do so since high school five years ago. It is common for my mom to get all pissed at me for first time offenses as if I do said thing all the time. Anyway we ended up in a loud yelling fight and she called me a bitch at one point. But it was just the anger speaking and we both apologized to each other. She eventually understood my side.

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Old 01-19-2010, 06:05 AM

yeah well my mum doesnt really get mad when she drinks, juts really loud!

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Old 01-19-2010, 06:09 AM

She is drunk! What do you expect

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Old 01-19-2010, 08:09 AM

Wow so far my mom seems to be the only one discussed in this thread who DOESN'T drink. At least not anymore, she used to drink wine a lot but she NEVER got drunk. My grandfather on the other hand gets drunk sometimes and even once grabbed my mom's neck for a moment before apologizing.

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Old 01-19-2010, 12:03 PM

Yup... =.= my mom indirectly calls me a failure... constantly...

And based off your picture... truthfully... ^^" doesn't look that bad

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Old 01-19-2010, 04:38 PM

Yah my dad calls me a failure. He considers me incapable of anything, when really, I would personally say that I am capable just as much as any other young adult, if not slightly more. I tend to think things through a lot and try my best to stay out of trouble. But my dad always is extremely rude to me. More often than my dad, my mom and my sister have called me a bitch and a spoiled rotten brat.. which.. uhh ya I never ask any one for anything but they tend to take me in a weird way sometimes. My sister if she is mad at me she tends to call me a "little" something or other.. sometimes stopping herself if others are home but she can get nasty about it sometimes. More often than not it's my dad though. He drinks from time to time. He picked it up from his dad and it kinda stuck. I think a lot of teenagers are really misunderstood though so it makes sense... although being a sad truth, that they get called rude things a lot and are put in trouble or something..
Kaze- hi... I know .. we soo need to move out @-o

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Old 01-19-2010, 05:03 PM

I live in Saskatoon Sask Canada trust me your not a hooker. to youne and not dressed like one so cheers to you your still good

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Old 01-19-2010, 05:03 PM

My dad called me a dildo once.

I misheard him say something, and I thought he called me a dildo.
"Dad, did you just call me a dildo?!"
"What?! No!
...dildo."

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Old 01-19-2010, 05:25 PM

Can't say I have ever had any kind of language that was abusive towards me by a parent. It's really sad to hear that they would say such things to their children.

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Old 01-19-2010, 07:00 PM

To all of you.. remember that it is NOT your fault your mom or dad says horrible things to you. They are taking out their anger on you or they are angry they can't control you the way they want or they expect you to worship them. Maybe they want you to have their opinions instead of your own. And if your mom is drunk just remember it is the booze talking and she is likely very jealous of your youth and good looks and body and your clean slate in life and she envies you. Don't believe anything she said.. just pity her and know how ashamed she probably is deep down.. maybe she even hates herself. You really deserve better and I'm so sorry for everyone who posted that their parents said horrible things to them. If they apologize and take it back and talk it out with you, then that's good. It's when they pretend nothing happened, or that they did no wrong, that it hurts and traumatizes the most.

Obviously mental abuse can be really bad for you..
if you believe what they're saying to you.. if you take the blame..
But if you know it's not true and it's not your fault..
and you let it be THEIR problem that they're despicable in that aspect..
then you can get thru it.

If you ever want to talk feel free to PM me. I keep secrets and confidences, and I'm going to college for Psychology so I can be a licensed therapist. I'll only give advice if you ask, and I can really be reassuring and if you need to vent I am glad to listen.

Last edited by Covet; 02-09-2010 at 05:43 AM.. Reason: it's personal.

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Old 01-19-2010, 10:28 PM

Wow I feel really sad for all of you that you have such abusive/mean parents. Mine were never like that towards me, my parents and the rest of my family if anything have always been over confident in me. The only real problem I have is that my eleven year old cousin's piano, and acting is taking over the family and sometimes making me feel less special. But my mom says that's not true, I just need to do something they can talk about too. And you had better believe I plan to; I will go the distance!

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Old 01-19-2010, 11:53 PM

some of the close call fist fights were when shes sober
and speaking of grandparents
when my grandpa used to drink he threw like five cops off his porch :0

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Old 01-19-2010, 11:58 PM

My mum calls me a Spoilt little brat when she's drunk.

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Old 01-20-2010, 12:33 AM

My parents never really said anything directly, it was all insinuating towards them thinking I would be a failure. Yet, Ive graduated from college, and am now in the field which I was studying(yay cooking!).

And as for all the other names you were called? I would have to say you arent close to be anything like that, as far as I can tell at least. Around here(Calgary Alberta) you would be considered normal. And until proven otherwise, you would definatly be considered just a normal teen girl.

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Old 01-20-2010, 03:40 AM

Thankfully no, my parents didn't drink. I have been called named by my father, and it still hurts to think of it. So..needless tosay I've not forgiven him for it...but he knew what he was doing.

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Old 01-20-2010, 03:57 AM

frankly miss DinoKisses, try putting your hooters back in your shirt and maybe she'll think you're a tad less trashy. Also did you ask her why she thinks that?

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Old 01-20-2010, 04:08 AM

hahaha. My mom and I were cooking in the kitchen and getting in each others' way when she called me a little b*tch. It was in jest, and I yelled to my dad that she just called me that, and he yelled back. we were doubled over in laughter. by the way we're both adults now.

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Old 01-20-2010, 04:14 AM

my mom has never called me a hooker or a whore ...wow im sorry to hear that if it makes you feel bad please talk to her about it...if your mom is drunk i guess that may be case not all because like when my mom drinks..(she doesn't drink all the time btw she isn't a drunk) she acts silly and just embarassing ...then there is people who may get violent...

 


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