It's boy trouble. It kind of bothers me a bit. So my friend has a cousin and he has a huge crush on me. I have tried to talk to him and tell him that I think of him of just a friend but he's not getting it. He'll send me love letters and other stuff but I tell him the same thing. He's still not getting it. A few months ago he came to visit my friend in hopes of seeing me. But I stayed away cause he creeps me out a little bit. I just don't want to hurt his feelings. He moved away but he asks my friend which sites I go on. I tell her not to tell him but he finds out somehow...:(

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If you feel like you've done everything you possibly can, including telling him face to face something like "We are only friends and nothing more. You need to stop sending me letters and bothering me constantly." and he still won't leave you alone, I would talk to your parents about it. I know that may seem like you're being a tattle-tale, but if he will not stop bothering you, perhaps your parents can talk to his parents about it or something. Listen to your intuition. If you're getting bad vibes from him, continue to stay away, make all your social networks private or friends-only, or delete them (as horrible as that might be).

Originally Posted by TheJupiterAlien

If you feel like you've done everything you possibly can, including telling him face to face something like "We are only friends and nothing more. You need to stop sending me letters and bothering me constantly." and he still won't leave you alone, I would talk to your parents about it. I know that may seem like you're being a tattle-tale, but if he will not stop bothering you, perhaps your parents can talk to his parents about it or something. Listen to your intuition. If you're getting bad vibes from him, continue to stay away, make all your social networks private or friends-only, or delete them (as horrible as that might be).

I have to agree with this, because if your gut intuition tells you that this boy is making you uncomfortable, there is a reason for that. If he can't back off and give you space, you should talk to your parents. Setting your social networks, like facebook and myspace to friends-only or private is just a great idea to begin with, as there are ALOT of creepers out there. You also should make it clear to your friend, whom he is related to, how this situation makes you feel and how uncomfortable he makes you, because it sounds like your friend keeps telling him how to find you online.

Definitely talk to your parents about it. If they tell his parents or him personally, and he still doesn't stop, then it's maybe time to talk to the authorities. I know that sounds harsh, but he's exhibiting stalker behavior, and it usually only gets worse until something real is done. I'm not trying to scare you, it's just a fact.

In short. Tell parents, if it doesn't stop tell them again, if it doesn't stop then, restraining order.

I'm an extremely confrontational person so I'd chew his ass out myself and scare him into not liking me anymore :P

But I suggest talking to your friend about it, if they don't take you seriously then definitely bring it up to your parents.

try to be like look dude, i dont like u like that, sit down n talk to him

Your best bet is to tell him if you see him around and make sure you have friends to watch and just move a distance away so that conversation is private and just tell him how you really feel, or you could just continue to ignore him, sooner or later he will get the hint.
You haven't done anyhting to lead him on have you?