In so many areas of my life I feel constantly ridiculed and picked on. It feels like everything i do or am is just looked down upon by my peers and family even.
Im a Chrisitian. Why does it feel like as soon as i tell someone this they treat me like i have the plauge? Especially when Ive made it a point to never ridicule another person about their belief systems or ever tried to cram Jesus down anyone's throat, or tell them about him when they didn't want to hear it.
I happen to have a large behind. I can't help that. Its just the way i was designed. My mum and her friend constantly remind me of it. After a while it doesnt feel like a joke anymore.
I happen to be a person who enjoyes knowledge. I like school. Is that so bad?
My life has been confined to a couple boxes and a small area in the living room of an apartment. My mum ostensibly constantly snipping at me to keep it tidy. Its Annoying when i downgraded from an actual room in an actual house.
I am a person who values order. Disarray, caos, and disobedience make me nuts.
I am an loyal friend and dishonesty and unloyalty drive me crazy.
I am very assertive.

Some people love these things about me but most just sit around and ridicule me. Im not trying to complain, but i need advice, how do i deal with people who just want to sit around and criticize? Does anyone else have this problem? How do I make my mother understand me better without setting her off? It all makes me feel so crazy.

Well, first off I'd say to calmly and politly ask to talk to your mom and tell her that some of the things she has been saying have been hurting you, and that you'd like if she'd try to avoid making you feel ridiculed

There is NOTHING wrong with liking school. And do you know what it means? It means that your going to do a heck of a lot better in life because you actually pay attention. Be proud of it!
And be proud of your big booty! Its all genetics, I'm sure that you know that. When it comes to people outside your family, own your traits. I have a big butt too and what i do is joke about the thing. If you poke fun at it people will start to realize that its not something that you care about enough to be hurt by their words, and they get bored.
And they'll be like, "What, she beat me to the punch line? Oh crap, shes not sensitive about that...Darn it, I only prepared myself for butt jokes today! NOW I HAVE NOTHING! ABANDON SHIP!"
Its not fool proof, but its an idea ^^
As for your family, ether tell them its actually hurting you or make fun of them back. When my dad calls my butt fat i tell him that the shine from his head is blinding me.
Id suggest talking to your mom about the rest honestly, if you set her off, well you've set her off. But at least shell know whats bothering you.
And as to the problem with your religion, if your already being respectful of other people, not pushing anything on them, uh, there's really nothing else you can do. The only reason that i would personally have a problem with any religion is ether because they are being ether disrespectful, harmful, pushy, or close minded. If your not being any of the above, your not really doing anything externally wrong. Their probably just reacting to the title Christian, not so much you. Maybe you should tell them off? I don't really know, id just suggest that you keep being respectful and not pushy, then at least you'll know that your being kind enough to not criticize others. :)

^--- Nekochan, well said!