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Old 10-22-2007, 07:20 AM

I think it's odd that people would date that early. Of course it depends on maturity, but 4th graders dating? (It was 4th graders right? O.o) That's just silly in my opinion. I don't think any of them could be mature enough.

Sometimes it seems to me that some people think a girlfriend or boyfriend is a "must" and they wouldn't be complete without it, therefore they'd just take anyone as boyfriend/girlfriend. I think that's a completely wrong attitude.

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Old 10-22-2007, 08:39 AM

I didn't start "dating" until 10th grade. And... it wasn't much of a relationship. We saw each other maybe three times cause we went to different schools and each time was a group date, not an individual.

If you don't count that sad excuse for a relationship, I didn't really start dating until I got to college. (And I've only had two relationships there).

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Old 10-22-2007, 11:56 AM

I think it's compleatley down to the maturity of the people involved. I'm nearly 17, and still don't feel ready.
However a good freinds of mine started dating her boyfriend, another good friend of mine, 4 years her seniour, when she was 13 or 14. They are still together three and a half years down the line, because they were both mature people, and didn't rush into anything.

I think there is too much peer preassure on young teens and even children younger than 13 to start dating. I see no real issue with it, i just think people should wait and enjoy their childhood, and play at grown up life later.

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Old 10-23-2007, 02:23 AM

4th Grade?! That is way too young, if you want to start dating, wait till middle school, but even then, I think you're still too young. [[Because I used the words "You" and "You're", I don't really mean you as the person I'm refering to...I'm just to lazy to write it a different way. Don't be offended. I'm not talking about you. =P]]

I'm not allowed to date till 18. >> Thats bad...so sad...>.< But I've had stalkers as admirerers(sp?)...and it's creey. So...even though it's somewhat bad, it's a good excuse for these weird people.

I think 16 is a good age to start. Not sure why...Maybe it's like how 16 year olds can drive? I'm not sure. Just my opinion.

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Old 10-23-2007, 03:22 AM

Everyone's a slut. Everyone.

Pretty soon elementary kids will be screwing each other during lunch.

And the teachers will be showing them how to do it.

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Old 10-23-2007, 07:36 AM

I don't think that dating at a young age is bad.

I used to hold that opinion. But really, it doesn't hurt me. If all they're doing is holding hands or kissing, why should I care? Now, yes, maybe if someone got pregnant I would be worried. But...

Really, it's all down to the maturity level. Why are you dating your significant other? If it's just because you can, then no, I don't think that you should date them. I'm not stopping you, however. (This applies to everyone, kids included.)

Then there are the kids who really do like each other -- and as long as it remains innocent, again, I see no harm. Maybe a few embarrassing stories for future birthdays, but that's the way life goes.

I've had crushes in the past, yes. I've fantasised about dating someone, yes. But in the end, I know that most people at my age are immature; this doesn't in any way exclude me. I'd rather wait, really. I deal with bullshit every day because of my choice, but I have every right to hold this opinion, just as my classmates have every right to go off and "date" people.

(Note that I say "date" only when referring to my classmates. The most serious relationship that has happened to date is when a friend of mine dated a guy back when we were ten. He asked her if she wanted to go to a local fish'n'chips shop. The point is made mute, however, by the fact that he asked her out on a dare.)

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Old 10-23-2007, 07:14 PM

I was 18 when I had my first girlfriend, and 20 when I had my first boyfriend. My parents never said anything to me about dating, and I never really had alot of friends growing up... and none of them were people I would want to date any way.

My Fieance says when we have a kid that if it's a boy he can date at 16, and if it's a girl then she can at 18... lol

I belive that 16 is a good age for both boys and girls. that's when most of the school dances start picking up and kids want to get out more and start being more independant.

 


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