My boyfriend is getting me something for valentines day, and he won't tell me what.

T.T

Originally Posted by CinderMoth

My boyfriend is getting me something for valentines day, and he won't tell me what.

T.T

Mine is too, and he wont tells me either <.<

And i told him NO!

I'd honestly love a necklace from my boy, but he needs the money to feed himself and rent his place...so no gifts for me! D:

I don't really have the moneys to buy him anything either.

Maybe I'll make him some art, we do that a lot when we can! XD

Well, I know he got me something, he won't tell me what...ugh I hate when he does this to me. Eh, I'll get over it...though I didn't really want anything, oh well..

It's kinda of sad, but my engagement ring was stolen by my Brother about four weeks ago, and that seriously made me cry. He's cluing me in kind of, that he got me a ring, because I was going to buy this, in place of it.

Amazon.com: Claddagh Sterling Silver Emerald Crystal Ring: Clothing

I don't really mind, I don't think anyone should expect grandiose gifts on Valentine's Day. I think that is the part that is fueled by Hallmark and all those companies. But doing something fun or nice or sweet is a great way to celebrate, and what it really should be about. Spending time with loved ones, even if it isn't a spouse - could be just a friend!

My fiance usually gets me a little something that I like, maybe A new drawing pencil or a book or DVD i've been wanting. I think it is better that way!

Originally Posted by Le Phantastique

I don't really mind, I don't think anyone should expect grandiose gifts on Valentine's Day. I think that is the part that is fueled by Hallmark and all those companies. But doing something fun or nice or sweet is a great way to celebrate, and what it really should be about. Spending time with loved ones, even if it isn't a spouse - could be just a friend!

My fiance usually gets me a little something that I like, maybe A new drawing pencil or a book or DVD i've been wanting. I think it is better that way!

I totally agree with you. ^^ I like just spending time with friend or family or that special somebody. :3 That's my favorite part. Dont need anything else.

My boyfriend and I have never exchanged anything for V-Day, and this will be our third together. We show our love all the time, and don't need a holiday to do something special for each other, because we always are.
Plus, I don't want him to buy me anything because it's basically the norm, and he thinks that I'm supposed to get mad/upset if he doesn't. That's a crappy reason to get a gift, and unfortunely the reason behind most V-Day gifts. xD

Normally we go gets some chocolates together after the holiday once they're discounted though, they're too tastey to resist. We pig out on them together. xD

This is my second Vday with my boyfriend, and we're exchanging gifts. :) He already got me a beautiful necklace and took me to Build-A-Bear. I got him 2 long sleeved shirts from Hollister, but I ordered them online and they didn't come in yet. :cry: Maybe they'll be at my dorm on Sunday, when he takes me back...

Originally Posted by Amelia

My boyfriend and I have never exchanged anything for V-Day, and this will be our third together. We show our love all the time, and don't need a holiday to do something special for each other, because we always are.
Plus, I don't want him to buy me anything because it's basically the norm, and he thinks that I'm supposed to get mad/upset if he doesn't. That's a crappy reason to get a gift, and unfortunely the reason behind most V-Day gifts. xD

Normally we go gets some chocolates together after the holiday once they're discounted though, they're too tastey to resist. We pig out on them together. xD

That's funny because I told my boyfriend again that I didn't want anything and not to buy me anything and he said that if he didn't I would get mad at him. I know in the past I bought him some gifts and stuff, but that was when he lived far away and I had no other way to really "Show my love" but now I can do it in many other ways. And he just likes to use Vday as an excuse to buy something for me. He has bought things for me before, but I told him no and now that he has a reason he's gunna do it no matter what I say...

My hubby is my gift. <3 And I got something for my mum. 8D I loooove her. mums deserve love on Valentine's day, not just Mother's day.

Aw that's sweet. My mom hates gifts too. She likes ones that we make. So I make her cards and she loves them. :D

And I agree.. My bf is a good gift. Seeing how its our first vday together. ;D

My boyfriend never ever ever rememebers so I'm not even expecting a card ._____. I've got him a card and a few gifts, but I don't expect the same back. It was the same for our anniversary. And my birthday.

I still love him though and that's all that matters.

Be grateful if he gets you something, he did it out of love, no matter what it is (unless it was an obvious last-minute bullshit gift, in which case, just give him a jokerface and remind him you really didn't want anything.) Maybe remind him anyway? But accept gracefully. Be ladylike. :\

Originally Posted by Itsumou

Be grateful if he gets you something, he did it out of love, no matter what it is (unless it was an obvious last-minute bullshit gift, in which case, just give him a jokerface and remind him you really didn't want anything.) Maybe remind him anyway? But accept gracefully. Be ladylike. :\

I am grateful for what ever he does for me and what ever he gives to me. And I have reminded him. He just thinks I'd be mad at him if he gets me nothing. I told him I would be happy just to spend part of the day with him but he doesn't believe me lol. I feel bad becasue I don't have money to buy him anything in return. I know he will buy something, but he wont get anything back. Just loves. So, I'm sure that he will be okay with that lol :P