let's share love (and bitterness, heartbreak, and despair) stories~

My first love was bittersweet.
long story short, i was friendless,
and he made me feel loved.

we broke up and i was a horrible obsessive girl.
i thought i'd always love him,
but i'm glad it's over now.

:)

Awww. I haven't had my first love yet, but there's no big rush.

no rush at all.
:D
Love is worth waiting for and all that cheesy shit~

haha, i'm in a weird good mood tonight~

I'm still with my first love C:
Of course we've been on and off for 3 years lol

Ae just had his first love a true love on his best friends who he was friends with 3years and last year he feel in love with her but she left him at new year for some guy now Ace is not even friend with her cause its hurts >.< love sucks

I never had a first love, but I had many crushes. :XP

Well i feel in love with my best guy friend at that moment in time. He was my first real love because the rest of the guys i just thought were cute. but he was different. He made me feel like a giddy school girl which i was but you know what i mean. Anyways i told him how i felt and the bastard ignored me! he just like hated my guts. of course i was depressed especially when i found out he got with one of my friends. eventually we acted like we didn't know each other but do to circumstances we had no choice but to talk again. I still hold feelings for him and haven't really gotten over. I guess i still really like because i haven't found someone that makes me feel that way. its been five years already wow...

the first guy I fellin love with, was a player. he was going out with all my friends and me. when i found out i dumped his ass, but i was sooo in love with him. I was hard.

Zoroastra, I went the same route. D : I hate players. We all dumped him at the exact same time. It hurt, but it rocked.

It was a boy in pre-school. My mom asked him for me if he liked me and he said no. :(

I haven't had a first love yet..which is probably pathetic considering I'm 21...^_^;; But all your experiences sound interesting......>.>;;

<3 <3 First love was a kid I used to sing Weird Al songs with on the school bus home. Aaaaah, young love and bonding over "Amish Paradise" Wish things were that amazing and simple now *eyeroll*

Okay so my first love was my current fiance. =)

We had been living 3 miles away from each other for years before we met. We met while he was doing his senior project at a day camp. I was volunteering. We happened to be counselors in the same group of kids. I first talked to him after he gave my little sister a metal bat which she came running at me with. I returned it to him once I wrestled it from her. For the rest of the week we flirted with each other but nothing really happened. I found out he was 17, and I at the time was 14 so I didn't think I had a chance. He gave me his email so I could email him pictures I'd taken of the week for his senior project. We started talking online 1 month later. Then he started calling me and before I knew it I was head over heels for him!! and I still love him with all my heart. <3<3<3 Relationships aren't easy but they're wonderful when it's right. =)

My first love was a girl who said she liked me back. After much drama, we started dating. Then I got pushed aside for a guy, and was in a weird love-triangle for most of the two years we "dated". Then I broke it off and suffered for a bit.

It doesn't hurt to think about anymore. It's weird, actually, because it kept me up so many nights before. But it hasn't hurt for a while. We would still be friends, but we both fell in love with different things, and only one overlapped. It was hard to be friends with someone who shares only one interest with you, especially when it's a very passing one.

My first love was a guy who I had a crush on in fourth grade. I tried to ask him if he liked me in a valentine on valentines day, but he never replied. In eight grade I figured out that he had been too shy. We wrote letters back and forth for a few months and then decided to "date" (we only held hands, which I was happy with in the end) I liked him, but I had a hard time saying that I loved him, wwhich I think he had a problem with. During the summer he didn't vist me, though he only lived a few blocks away. I went to church camp and found out when I got back that he had been seeing my best friend behind my back, then broke up with me over the phone. That was what I thought was my first love.

My real first love turned out a little differently. I was in a play in fifth grade(school age me having given up on the other guy) when I noticed a guy who read a lot. He was cute and funny. Ex: We had a scene where we were supposed to come onto the stage, tired, mummering things like "Ow my foot, Oh my ankle, Ow my toe," etc. One day he came in and yelled, "I think I broke my medula oblongada!" The directors liked it so much they decided to add it to the script (by the way, this was a lord of the rings based play and he was playing gandalf)
He also sang wonderfully, and seemed to not mind me following him around like the stalker that I was. I followed him and ended up in the same homerooom as he was in sixth grade. All throughout that time, I tried to figure out how he felt about me, but never knew. Then my mother was diagnosed with cancer and I went into seventh grade. I gave up on him, later had that experince that I explained with the fourth grade crush guy, and went into high school. I had thought that I had only had a crush on him(note the stalker thing)... I even had a notebook filled with likes, dislikes, etc.! Later some people were making fun of him because he didn't like to be touched. I chewed them out, resisted the urge to hit them, and realized that I still liked him... and maybe even loved him. That was four years ago actually. A year after that incedent, we started dating( after another incedent invloving a Christmas scarf and me hyperventalating and almost passing out) and have been for three years now.

The only problem is, I have never been able to tell, whould I call the first guy my first like? He was a friend and it took me a while to notice him, etc. or the other one, considering how much longer it lasted and how sudden it was?

o_0 I did not mean to write that much...

I think I'm with my first love. I never really loved my ex.

mine was a guy in band he played the french horn

My first love was this sweet guy, Mike. I actually didn't like him at first. We were in 8th grade, and had a class together. I found him quite annoying. But then there was another guy in the class who kept picking on me. One day it got out of hand, and he slapped me. Mike went up to him and started yelling at him, and got between us. As soon as the teacher walked in, Mike went up to him and told him what had happened, and got us sat as far across the room from each other as possible. Then Mike got moved to my math class, and he ended up joining my group. I always felt like my group was a bunch of misfits anyways (I was the girl on the wrestling team and I dyed my hair funky colors, and the other girl was the 7th grader who was ahead of her whole grade, so was with us). We started chatting, then my best friend decided it was time for Mike and I to start dating. We dated for 9 months, and at first I thought it was really sweet that he was taking it slow and all we did was hold hands. But then I got frustrated, because I didn't know how to tell him that I wanted to kiss him, and was too scared to kiss him myself. I ended up hurting him pretty bad and broke up with him, and we didn't talk for a while. But, our group of friends ended up overlapping, because one of our friends lived really far away and we didn't get to see him very often, so Mike and I had to see each other when we'd see this friend. So we became really good friends ever since.

Originally Posted by goofballslady

My first love was this sweet guy, Mike. I actually didn't like him at first. We were in 8th grade, and had a class together. I found him quite annoying. But then there was another guy in the class who kept picking on me. One day it got out of hand, and he slapped me. Mike went up to him and started yelling at him, and got between us. As soon as the teacher walked in, Mike went up to him and told him what had happened, and got us sat as far across the room from each other as possible. Then Mike got moved to my math class, and he ended up joining my group. I always felt like my group was a bunch of misfits anyways (I was the girl on the wrestling team and I dyed my hair funky colors, and the other girl was the 7th grader who was ahead of her whole grade, so was with us). We started chatting, then my best friend decided it was time for Mike and I to start dating. We dated for 9 months, and at first I thought it was really sweet that he was taking it slow and all we did was hold hands. But then I got frustrated, because I didn't know how to tell him that I wanted to kiss him, and was too scared to kiss him myself. I ended up hurting him pretty bad and broke up with him, and we didn't talk for a while. But, our group of friends ended up overlapping, because one of our friends lived really far away and we didn't get to see him very often, so Mike and I had to see each other when we'd see this friend. So we became really good friends ever since.

i love it when exes become friends. There is certain maturity above others that people have when they can do that.

We were in kindergarten and he was a year younger and lived next door. We were going to marry and have kids. But those plans you make when you're 4 don't always turn out so well, so...

My first "love" wasn't really a love either, so to speak.
I was 15, he was two years older and one day he said he liked me. I was a very closed kid and scared of people in general, but somehow I felt comfort in knowing that someone liked me. Or so I thought.
Turns out he was just playing with me, I had a relapse and closed up again until another friend finally talked me out of being a depressed and whiny bitch. It took over a year, mind you. I couldn't forget that first guy because I truly believed he liked me, and also that I liked him back. I had been so happy living in this delusion that of course I couldn't help but to be depressed when it all came crashing down.
But everything is okay now. I found out I had feelings for the guy who helped me up again.
And just some months ago my kindergarten boyfriend confessed to me... So I'm really confused. What to do?

It'll get better eventually. Woo!
:XD

Lol, it's like your kindergarten boy will follow you forever for your love~
xD

I was 10 when I found my first love. I know it sounds very young, but to this day, I feel bittersweet when I think about him. And even my mother believes I love/loved him.

Anyway, we met and dated for a few months. His name was Nick, and he was a real sweetheart. He visited his mother every weekend, and that's when we got to see each other.

When his mother moved, we still went out, though it was a little harder, and we had to get our parents to drive us to see each other. Ah, the romance of children lol

Anyway, one day, he called up, and we talked for about an hour. After that, he never called again ... and I couldn't get ahold of him. So, yeah, we didn't date anymore.

My story of love is still going.
i started dating him 9 months ago. but knew if for a year before that. We had spanish class together and we were both so shy to talk to one anther.
But the first time we did it was like something sparked. It felt like magic you can say.
He is the best guy i could have ever met.

I haven't had my first real love, either. There was one guy I thought I loved back in seventh grade, but he just turned out to be a horrible person. I guess I have a while to find love, I am only twenty years old after all. :)

My first love was a liar. It was a long distance relationship when I was 12. It lasted a month short of 4 years. He was actually female, which I didn't care about. She came to visit me and we spent a week together before she went down to her father's wedding, where she met the girl she was cheating on me with for 2 months. She told her other girlfriend that i attacked her, and that's how she got the hickeys and bite marks.