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06-26-2010, 03:16 AM
I do not understand what the big deal with me is - I mean really, I wear make up, I straighten my hair. This affects you how? Me wearing make-up is damaging your health right? I'm giving you cancer when I straighten my hair? I'm obviously poisoning you when I paint my nails right?
No-No-No-No-NO-NO!!!
None of those things are true, who I am does not affect any of you personally, all it does is express who I am!
I like to wear make-up, and paint my nails...
I love tight clothes and I am not afraid to voice my opinion.
I don't understand why you feel the need to insult me because I am confident with who I am and what I do.
If it bothers you that I wear skinny jeans - Stop looking at my legs!
If its "nasty" that I wear make-up then you need to stop staring at my face...
Ugh... I'm so frustrated by all of you stupid people. Really, you have something to say to me? That`s nice - I don`t care. I'm really tired of your opinions, and after this post is over... after I'm doing completely venting I will be done with all of you.
I have so much more to say - I am going to get a drink, then when I get back. I will continue - maybe. If I don`t stop caring during the 5 minutes I take to get my drink.
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06-26-2010, 03:31 AM
Well...sounds like you've run into many a stupid person. =/ But of course, I'm the weird one for not caring how people dress in the first place. XD You tell 'em!
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06-26-2010, 03:39 AM
Yes - I run into many, many, stupid people. Its actually ridiculous.
That does not make you weird hun, it makes you intelligent, it means you have the understanding of a grown up and were not raised in the stone ages! lol
I will tell them... I have already freaked out during classes and stuff...
Heck, I have had teachers call my mom and complain about my sexuality!
I was like, the next day at school, "My sexuality concerns you how? Your here to teach me... nothing else."
Teachers :/
lol
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HappyStarr
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06-26-2010, 03:59 AM
ugh...seriously. I'm so glad I wasn't raised in the stone ages! XD My mom raised me good and proper! haha
Really, though. It's amazing how many people freak out over little things. If they have a real problem with it, they have every right to just ignore it and move on with their lives. And teachers? Really.... Some teachers can be such butts. Hopefully you'll get better ones in the future.
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Fortis Silas
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06-26-2010, 04:02 AM
Running into stupid people is common. Back when I was still in high school I was in the middle of absolutely nowhere. >.> In my town of 2000 people it was inbreeding hick city, and I was the only goth around for 40 miles.
I was harassed daily, people threatened to kill me, told me to kill myself, threatened to put bombs in my cars and one guy even told me he was going to rape me "but not in a gay way". -facepalm-
Thing is, people will always be uncomfortable with that which they don't understand. That shouldn't make you angry, but rather happy, because you're something they'll never manage to achieve. Be proud of your individuality. I admit, it bothered me from time to time, but it never stopped me from moving on and proving I was better than the rest of them.
Just be yourself and screw the world. You'll find people who like it, and if you don't? Oh well. You're you, so live it up.
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06-26-2010, 04:03 AM
Yes - your mom did a great job obviously! =P
and yah why cant they just ignore me? haha
and teachers are so dumb... I only have... 3 teachers I like... well, more like love =P haha
But yeah, in general... I hope to meet much more understanding people ya know?
and thank you fortis... you have some really good points and I really like the "Your you, so live it up" cuz well... its so true! ^.^
Thanks ^.^
I honestly feel so much better haha
and the rp`ing is helping ;) lol
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06-26-2010, 04:12 AM
haha I totally agree, Fortis. There's really no reason to get caught up in other people's small opinions. You'll likely meet more interesting people as your life progresses. It still goes on, and you'll find much better people to deal with. If it's a problem in your general area, you can look forward to going to a college (if you're in high school? =/) in a location with a more accepting taste toward your style or in general.
And good to hear you're feeling better! Sometimes a good vent is all ya really need. lol I prefer going out and beating the anger out.....>.> In a controlled environment. Good thing I haven't been angry lately, 'cause I quit working there and haven't been back much (which they remind me all the time when I stop by..)
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06-26-2010, 04:19 AM
Hahah Yah - cant wait for college!
((Im grade 11 =P going to grade 12 this coming year xD))
ut yeah... the venting helps :3
haha beating things isnt my style ya know?
Im too girly for that =P haha
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HappyStarr
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06-26-2010, 04:25 AM
hahahaa 's all cool. I don't recommend it, really. I can get violent and stupid...but not in a dangerous way. Just in a very stupid way. I wanted to try punching a tv once, just to see what happened. ......It just hurt. A LOT. And Bostaff classes were always fun. Ultimate self inflicted pain. XD I used to get massive bruises on my arms...
And college will likely be better. There's many different kinds of people. I've met a lot of really awesome people, and that was just at the community college. XD Can't wait to see what my new school will be like..
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06-26-2010, 04:32 AM
Who gives a fuck what people think? If you're happy, fuck it. I've lived for years with my mother constantly yelling at me for not doing things her way. She quieted down once she saw that what she said wasn't going to stop me.
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06-26-2010, 09:06 AM
Ignoring people like that seems to bug them the most. They're taunting you to get a reaction from you so that they can feel better about themselves. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing that they've rattled/bothered you. I really hate people like that.
I kind of have the same problem. I'm gay, and despite what you may think from looking at my avatar (xD) I look and dress kind of stereotypically dyke-ish. I have really short, cropped, choppy hair that is rarely it's natural, or any natural color. I also have two fairly prominent tattoos and three piercings. My usual outfits are a tank, ratty jeans, and my boots. Steel toed doc martens. So yeah. I've heard my fair share of abuse, too.
Just try and hold out until college! I did, and I can vouch that it gets so much better once you're in college. Just make sure that you go to a liberal-ish school, and you'll love it. Things will get better! I promise!
And if they keep giving you grief, just find a tough, butch lesbian to beat them up.
(so many jokes with my gay friends about sending us lesbians out to fight.) xD
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06-26-2010, 03:01 PM
LMFAO @ Aetera!
OMG I officially love you! <3
Yah I am trying my best to wait for college... 1 more year! :S
lmao OMG I am going to go lesbian hunting then =P
I know two lesbians and their twins which I think is super cute and we talk alot but one is more of a girly lesbian and the other one is just really neutral. I don't think we have any dyke lesbians :/
But I love them! =D
Their like boys... but without the HUGE ASS list of defaults ;)
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Fortis Silas
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06-26-2010, 08:31 PM
I can promise you, college is a zillion times better. At your age I actually dropped out of high school and got my GED. (It wasn't the student harassment, but rather the principal was constantly harassing me in order to try and prove a point to my parents. He made me very uncomfortable and made a lot of assumptions about me, and I'm proud to say he never managed to prove his point. :3 )
College has been a lot of fun for me. I'm going to a community college, though, mind you, and they tend to treat their students more like adults. (Mostly because your fellow students are adults. I've been in a lot of classes with mostly people 30 or over, especially my Arabic class.) Typically people only bother you if they think you're awesome. I still get insults yelled at me from cars in the city if I'm walking by from time to time, but I'm so used to it after all these years it just seems natural. xD
Things'll get better. I promise!
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06-27-2010, 05:25 PM
My only comment is... You had a teacher call and ask your parents about your sexuality?
That's wrong on so many levels, and if I were you I would have taken it to the principal or [insert next level of authority here] to deal with that. Besides, it would give the teachers such a shitfit that it would be just a little bit amusing.
Though, I have such a hard time relating to the type of community you seem to be in. Here, we have a whole school full of colorful people. In fact, those who bug you would be the odd ones out here.
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06-27-2010, 05:27 PM
Thank you Fortis ^.^
Yah, after a while Im hoping I can just kinda throw those insults away and not take them so seriously.
I want too its just hard at times =P
But, Im confident I can cope and I am now more excited for college then ever! =D haha
Thank you everyone!
<3
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My only comment is... You had a teacher call and ask your parents about your sexuality?
That's wrong on so many levels, and if I were you I would have taken it to the principal or [insert next level of authority here] to deal with that. Besides, it would give the teachers such a shitfit that it would be just a little bit amusing.
Though, I have such a hard time relating to the type of community you seem to be in. Here, we have a whole school full of colorful people. In fact, those who bug you would be the odd ones out here.
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I wish that was my environment ^.^
Yah, she called my house about my sexuality... it was pretty messed up xD haha
I told the principal and he was like "Well, I cant tell teachers what to do on their spare time." and dismissed me.
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x_cannibalisticcows
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06-27-2010, 05:32 PM
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I wish that was my environment ^.^
Yah, she called my house about my sexuality... it was pretty messed up xD haha
I told the principal and he was like "Well, I cant tell teachers what to do on their spare time." and dismissed me.
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....Wow. Wow. Wow.
I think my head would explode.
Cause what they did is considered harassment. I say I would take it to the next level and have stuff done about it. But I'm actually quite lazy and would probably forget about it.
Or just make the teachers life at school really annoying. xD
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HappyStarr
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06-27-2010, 06:28 PM
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....Wow. Wow. Wow.
I think my head would explode.
Cause what they did is considered harassment. I say I would take it to the next level and have stuff done about it. But I'm actually quite lazy and would probably forget about it.
Or just make the teachers life at school really annoying. xD
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I'd probably go for the annoying factor, if I wasn't annoying already...>.> In class sing alongs during art class, and she couldn't do anything 'cause I was still workin' hard. Ohhh high school....XD
Really, though. Just do what you can to put up with it. I think the most annoying thing you can do to a teacher that dislikes you is to excel in their class.
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06-30-2010, 03:16 AM
I'm sorry people are so stupid. But it's high school; it's sort of inevitable. I put up with the same brand of crap from people because I never wore skirts or shorts, didn't show off what marginal cleavage I had, loved to wear ties and refused to sleep with anyone in high school, so I was the crazy frigid lesbian bitch that nobody would talk to. I can tell you though, it made my life a lot less dramatic and I never had to fight with or for a boyfriend. :)
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06-30-2010, 03:38 AM
LOL
True that! Way to look on the bright side!
Besides - the only thing the gay guys at my school want is sex - and I think Ill save my virginity for love baby =P lol
I don't need your STD's and I certainly don't care to be "popular" haha
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