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#4226
Old 04-10-2011, 03:53 AM

Sorry for disappearing, my friend came out and I wanted to see how she was doing (she and another friend of mine got into a HUGE fight earlier).

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Old 04-10-2011, 03:55 AM

Lol. Yeah. "Life's a bitch and then you die." XD I'm just being pessy and sarcastic. I don't really believe that...but I can't deny wishing that everyone would just stop trying...I dunno? to live so quickly? And forgetting that love isn't something you get with just going to a club and spending one night with somebody.

Another thing that bothers me is that when you do get somebody to stay for a little while they think "oh, this is going to be a perfect bloody fairy tale." Nuh uh. I would take somebody who was realistic and wasn't going to flee at the first sign of trouble. (whatever form that trouble may take)

I think this is an extremely self-destructive society we live in.

@Vix: Ugh. I'm sorry. What were they fighting over?

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Old 04-10-2011, 03:55 AM

Vix: That sucks. they okay?

Ely: Indeed. I want someone who realizes that there's going to be fights. It's the one you want, even when you are yelling at each other. The one who you just end up kissing at the end of the fights. That's the one you are really looking for no? ...Of course I'm a little bi-polar so for me someone who just understood would per near perfect.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:01 AM

I am copying this from an msn convo with my boyfriend whom I just told the story to:

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[23:53] [Genocide]: I was talking to her about the fight earlier, seeing if she was okay
[23:53] Daniel: ok
[23:53] [Genocide]: She almost started crying a few times
[23:53] Daniel: hug her?
[23:55] [Genocide]: I did, many times. Talked about how I had to choose her side because Amanda was being unreasonable (as usual), told her the side of the story I was told, and how I don't understand how Amanda can be so selfish or get so upset over pretty much nothing.
[23:56] Daniel: what was ut abiut
[23:58] [Genocide]: Amanda wanted to hang out with Cassie, Colleen, and I today and she apparently called Cassie 3 times within 15min and left her a bunch of texts even though she knew she was working. So Cassie comes back to the dorm to see Dave waiting for her and she brings him to dinner and tells Amanda that he'll be joining them.
[23:59] [Genocide]: No big deal, right? Well Amanda starts to flip her shit about how he shouldn't be there when she had been saying she wanted to get to know him better. Sure, I understand being disappointed that a girls night with your close friends wouldn't be happening but it's not like he's a bad guy or they're the kind of couple to spend an entire movie sucking face or anything.
[00:00] [Genocide]: I've said hi to him a few times and tonight was the first time I got to really talk to him and we got along wonderfully, we even hugged and that never happens. We all had a good time with him except Amanda simply because she didn't get her way.
[00:01] [Genocide]: She always says that she never gets to spend time with Cassie. Well everyone has busy schedules and I'm sorry but a SO takes priority over a friend, especially when they can only spend time together on weekends.
[00:01] [Genocide]: Also, she sees Cassie several times a week thanks to theater. She just wants to spend time alone with her. It's just stupid.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:05 AM

Lol. I've been there and done the bi-polar boyfriend. Do you just go from uber-happy to uber-thinky/sad out of the blue? I'm kinda like that, and my last bf was that way. It was always interesting. It was actually kind of fun. Haha.

And, yeah. That's what I want, too.

I've grown up in a family where it's shameful to swallow your own pride/ego, and I've seen it destroyed because of it. I can't stand people like that now. One of my favorite quotes is "Why do you spend all day smiling at strangers then come home and give all your frowns to your loved ones?" You're -supposed- to work it out and make up enthusiastically afterwards, even laugh at it together...like I do. Always makes it better.

@Vix: Pssh. I hate people who don't understand those kinds of situations.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:07 AM

Fights happen. They're rarely the end of the world.

@Ely: Right? It's like, "the world doesn't revolve around you, stop being a spoiled brat."

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:08 AM

Ely: Yeah. I just wish I could find someone who would get that you know? It seems to be a very difficult dream. lol.

Vix: Your friend is being a whiny butt. (amanda)

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:12 AM

You have no idea. She's like this about everything but I guess that's all little rich girls are, if they don't get their way then they throw tantrums no matter how ridiculous they seem.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:14 AM

Slap her face. She will be less whiny around you for fear of the slapping.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:16 AM

Oh hunny, I'd LOVE to. There are plenty of people I wouldn't mind using a little physical intimidation on. However, I graduate in a month so I'm trying to hold on until then. Besides, I know that I'll quickly lose touch with her. I'm not interested in remaining friends for very long.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:16 AM

Oh I really hated being single after being with someone, my boyfriend and I separated (it felt more like a break up at the time and was like that, but now we refer to it as a separation and a bad point in life and he feels bad about) But of course stuff worked out after 3 weeks.

@Elysium: Oh god it was horrible. She has no concept and didn't understand how it was a bad thing. I had to try to explain it to her and she still had the stupid look on her face and when she went out to go throw it out she had a hissy fit, slammed the door open and stormed out and throw it out, came back in and immediately yelled at me.

@Vix: Granted different type of situation, but sounds like how my roommate it. Yesterday for example. I asked her to leave the door open when she left and she closed it when she did even after I explained to her why I wanted it open. I opened it when she left and said something loud enough for her to hear, she instantly comes back and yells at me and DEMANDS me to be nice to her. -.- fn bitch. -.-

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:17 AM

I think it's just hard to find -somebody-. *sighs* Ah well, not like I've been looking very hard lately, so I don't know what the market's like. Lol.

Somebody'll understand you someday. There's a lot of girls out there who like the super-thinky guys. :) I always loved it, I just hate it when they're so thinky that they don't talk to you. >.> Mrg.

@Vix: Mhmm. If you're going to lose touch with her anyway, no point in making a big deal about it.

@Ser: Yeah. My last boyfriend was my first, and we were sooo similar in a lot of ways. It was AMAZING to have somebody -there- for me. My family has always been extremely cold and whatnot, so it was a breath of fresh air to have somebody lovely like that.

When we broke up/separated (it was a mutual separation that neither of us totally wanted>>>long distance relationship ftw) it felt so horrible to be single.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:19 AM

I'm not sure I believe in the notion of the one. Hell, I'm not even sure I'll ever get married. Never given it much thought and I'm rarely ever very serious when I date. Before getting with my current beau, I hadn't bothered to date anyone in a good three years. Single life suits me. I just wanna get laid, dammit! :lol:

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:21 AM

I waver on whether or not I believe in "the one." In a way, I think that every person in the universe could be your "one," but sometimes I think that's a bullcrap notion too. It depends on my pessimistic level at the time. Lol.

I don't know that I do single well anymore. I liked being loved and being with someone too darned much to say that I like this single shiz anymore.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:23 AM

Ely: I know how you feel. I keep finding girls who make me trust them, and then leave almost immediately after that. But I still hate being single, and I want to be with someone. I want someone who will actually want to be there for me. you know?

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:24 AM

I like my freedom, if a guy is too controlling, I turn nasty. My current guy has issues with that sometimes and then I have to set him straight. We're alright in general though. I know he wants to marry me.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:24 AM

Aww. :) lol. Everyone has their issues. Just never change who you are to suit someone else.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:27 AM

Believe me, I refuse to change. If a guy can't accept the fact that I'm independent, bitchy, and have weird tastes then he can suck it. Though I admit it's EXTREMELY difficult for me to be happy with someone who doesn't share my passion for music so I tend to fall hardest for musicians like my guy. He made a song for me <3

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:28 AM

Mhmm. I just want somebody to want to stay with me.

When I fall in love I fall hard...I can't help myself. But, for some reason, I can't find somebody who believes me when I say I want to stay. They just like to think I'm insane, haha.

I don't do uber-controlling people, period. I've got to have my own thing, and he's got to have his own thing, that we both do separately but don't mind if the other pops up in it every now and then.

You've got to be yourself, otherwise the things you were faking come out of the closet eventually.

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@Vix: Awhhhhhhh! Musicians are cute. :) My ex wrote a song for me and he'd play it for me spontaneously. I'll always have a spot in my heart for that one.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:31 AM

Same here about falling in love. Makes me glad I don't do it often because that's when my urge to run is strongest. I don't like sticking around, I don't like becoming attached. I have yet to figure out what keeps me with Dan or why he wants me. Previous experiences will always make me question a person's intentions in any situation.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:35 AM

Yeah. I've always wondered what makes some people want you and what makes some others not. I think that's the thing...you're not supposed to totally know, just trust that it's there.

I have issues with loving people (especially now) because I'm so convinced that others don't think relationships can last so they'll make them end against your will when nothing was wrong...and just because they think it should end.

I DO NOT like going into relationships knowing that the other person sees it ending some day.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:37 AM

"The best way to make a miracle go away is to ask it why it is."

And I've never understood people who get into any kind of relationship if they see an end to it. Why even bother you know?

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:39 AM

Nothing lasts forever so a relationship ending is never any surprise to me. I just try to make it as painless as possible. I'm not usually serious about my relationships and I let people know that upfront, "don't expect me to be with you 24/7. Don't expect me to surprise you with shit. Don't ask me to spill my guts and tell you my life story, it's not happening. Expect nothing from me and appreciate what I do give you."

In conclusion, dating me is not a good idea.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:43 AM

Oh, Vix. Lol. At least you tell people how it is.

@Saro: Very good quote, that. It rings completely true.

It's my belief that relationships tend to end simply because one of the people within it thinks they should.

I don't go into relationships thinking they should end, it's the other person's constant questioning that makes me think it's going to.

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Old 04-10-2011, 04:46 AM

I only ever question it if I'm given a reason to. To be honest as long as I know someone isn't going to leave, or cheat on me, I'm happy. I've been cheated on a good number of times, and I've been in bad relationships too. I see that crap coming before it begins. If I am dating someone it's because U think I could honestly be with them forever.

Vix: Lol. Not getting close huh?

 


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