I have really bad anger issues. lol

Mainly triggered by the smallest things. xD
I mean, usually they accumulate through out the day. But sometimes the tiniest fricken thing will set me off. :P

...for example, earlier today I re-broke the table leg that my dog broke with the vacuum cleaner the first time around.
(Don't ask. lol)
That pissed me off.
Couldn't find the superglue. That pissed me off.
Finally found it and it was almost gone. That pissed me off.
So I had to use the staple gun as well. xD
Couldn't find the damn staples. That pissed me off.
Found them, couldn't get them to load. That REALLY pissed me off.
Then when I'm done with the table, trying to relax and mellow out, I go outside for a cigarette...it breaks. That REALLY REALLY REALLY pissed me off and then *snap!*
screaming, yelling obscenities, etc., just generally pissed off as all hell's furry!

My boyfriend is the only one who gets it.
He has the same "issues" with small things too. lol
Especially when working on fixing something on his snowmobile.

But anyways, I'll get the usual "Anger never solves anything!"
From "passive" people.
Well, it makes me feel a whole hell of a lot better when it's all out of my system over and done with. xD
I never break anything that's not mine, I never hit anyone , I never blow up around kids, it's always short lived, so why does it bug you so much? lol
Just leave me be and let me go through it. :P
Saying crap like that just tends to piss people off more, and make it last longer.

So what I'm trying to ask is, does anyone have the same issues?
Or am I off my rocker?

You need to share a picture of that table!

I go through angry spats too. I feel that as long as you're not doing anything drastic during them (hurting people, destroying property that isn't yours, etc...), then what's the harm... And better if you're aware of how you are and take precautions or something.
I do think anger is something that we aren't really taught how to deal with, you know?
I usually just have to rant about what's bugging me to get it out of my system and then I reach a point where I go "... You know, I don't care, this is a waste of time.." and that's it. Laugh about it a bit. \o/ Funny how I have to go through that process to reach that conclusion though, lmao. I already know I'm going to reach it, why can't I just skip the middle part? D;

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

You need to share a picture of that table!

I go through angry spats too. I feel that as long as you're not doing anything drastic during them (hurting people, destroying property that isn't yours, etc...), then what's the harm... And better if you're aware of how you are and take precautions or something.
I do think anger is something that we aren't really taught how to deal with, you know?
I usually just have to rant about what's bugging me to get it out of my system and then I reach a point where I go "... You know, I don't care, this is a waste of time.." and that's it. Laugh about it a bit. \o/ Funny how I have to go through that process to reach that conclusion though, lmao. I already know I'm going to reach it, why can't I just skip the middle part? D;

LOL I really should take a picture. xD
It's ghetto as all hell.
Looks like frankenstein if he was tan and anorexic. lmao
No kidding, I always make fun after. Max laughs while I'm pissed. Dick.
lol It's not like I turn green and run around smashing things.
(Though I have pondered going to a thrift store and buying a bunch of plates for cheap, and just smashing them on the ground everywhere and sweeping it up afterward. lol)
I don't know why, but it always makes me feel better seeing/hearing things break when I'm mad. :P
Sounds awful, but it just releases my pissed-offness and somehow releaves me.
Man I have issues. xD

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

I do think anger is something that we aren't really taught how to deal with, you know?

That is so very true. It's easy enough for people to say "let it go" or "just calm down" but can anyone actually explain to me how to do that?

I have an explosive anger, I don't think it's caused by small issues but more caused by anything that causes me stress. Especially at work. There was one night I kept getting patient after patient, it seemed within ten minutes of each other. And there is just no possible way to have a patient set up and admitted within ten minutes to be ready for the next patient. On top of that my other patients were calling out to go to the bathroom or have their linens changed or "Whoops I dropped my urinal on the floor can you clean it up?". I asked the secretary multiple times if anyone else could help me out and she always responded that they were too busy... but of course every time I walked by the nurses' station they were all sitting on their big asses looking at Avon catalogs or yapping away about the latest tv dramas. It took about four hours into my shift before I finally exploded. I took the two clean linen carts from our hallway and pretty much rage tossed them into our linen closet (keep in mind this is far away from patient eyes). Normally these carts, even empty, are too heavy for me to actually lift off the floor but that night those bitches were airborne.

Long story short... I can completely understand the feeling of just needing to get all that anger out. Usually for me there is no other option, I don't even have control over it. It boils to the point of bursting out of me. I've never been violent to another person though, I haven't even raised my voice at anyone, I just stalk off and find some inanimate object to beat up and harass (sometimes even verbally).

Originally Posted by Eife

That is so very true. It's easy enough for people to say "let it go" or "just calm down" but can anyone actually explain to me how to do that?

I have an explosive anger, I don't think it's caused by small issues but more caused by anything that causes me stress. Especially at work. There was one night I kept getting patient after patient, it seemed within ten minutes of each other. And there is just no possible way to have a patient set up and admitted within ten minutes to be ready for the next patient. On top of that my other patients were calling out to go to the bathroom or have their linens changed or "Whoops I dropped my urinal on the floor can you clean it up?". I asked the secretary multiple times if anyone else could help me out and she always responded that they were too busy... but of course every time I walked by the nurses' station they were all sitting on their big asses looking at Avon catalogs or yapping away about the latest tv dramas. It took about four hours into my shift before I finally exploded. I took the two clean linen carts from our hallway and pretty much rage tossed them into our linen closet (keep in mind this is far away from patient eyes). Normally these carts, even empty, are too heavy for me to actually lift off the floor but that night those bitches were airborne.

Long story short... I can completely understand the feeling of just needing to get all that anger out. Usually for me there is no other option, I don't even have control over it. It boils to the point of bursting out of me. I've never been violent to another person though, I haven't even raised my voice at anyone, I just stalk off and find some inanimate object to beat up and harass (sometimes even verbally).

Holy crap dude, mad props.
You were WAY more calm in that situation then I would ever be if I went through something like that. Especially watching all those lazy twats yakking it up. D;

Yeah, in social situations I just go off somewhere else away from everybody, kick things and scream colorful chains of random obsenities and growls & grunts and pull on my hair or some shit so I don't break anything. xD
(lol I don't actually pull it out though. ^_^")
Though one time I did kick a big dent into one of those flimsy metal bathroom stall doors back when I was in highschool. Some racist little obnoxious ghetto trash chick started some dumb crap with me, threw her little carton of chocolate milk at me, and I told her to come meet me outside and she didn't show. So needless to say I was pissed the fuuuu off and went in the bathroom where no was around and started kicking the shit out of the stall.
But haha my teacher loved me so that dumb biznatch got expelled and I didn't!
Pay back is a bitch! Not that she really cared. The fight started over me asking her nicely to basically stfu because I was actually trying to learn in math class, while she was singing out loud, and the thing that triggered me was when she finally stood up and said " I have in announcemin tuh ma, I'm ge'in married!" Then I wasn't so nice anymore. I just straight up told her to shut the fuck up at that point. Then of course all hell broke loose and the screaming match begun, and the coward didn't show up outside after waiting like a half hour.
I went to the "bad kid" school, so it didn't take a whole bunch of "fight instigation" to get you expelled because we had a bunch of stupid little wannabe gangster kids in our school and they took it pretty seriously. :P
I cracked the hell up when I heard she got expelled.
Then all her fake ass friends tried to play all nicey nice with me. Apparently I was heard in the bathroom after all.

People piss me off the most for sure.
Can't stand most of them. lol

Well at least you don't go through your daughters closet and freak out when you see a wire hanger! and scream "No Wire Hangers! EVER!!"
Then I think I would truly be running for the hills lol

I get anger issues when it comes to people cutting me off in the highway, it's absolutely ridiculous how most people don't have road manners either want to block your from moving or passing them because it boosts their fragile little ego.

Anger can be triggered by smaller things espeically when it is things that you are being test or are coming upon failing.

@ ginger: What you did to that obnoxious bitch in math class makes me proud. I wish I was ballsy enough to say that to every single rude person who wouldn't shut the hell up in class.. but I am too beta.

I am a silent rager. I got anger issues like the rest of you but I just smile my creepy smile and continue doing my thang when deep down I am going on a mental killing spree.

Originally Posted by Kole_Locke

Well at least you don't go through your daughters closet and freak out when you see a wire hanger! and scream "No Wire Hangers! EVER!!"
Then I think I would truly be running for the hills lol

I get anger issues when it comes to people cutting me off in the highway, it's absolutely ridiculous how most people don't have road manners either want to block your from moving or passing them because it boosts their fragile little ego.

Anger can be triggered by smaller things espeically when it is things that you are being test or are coming upon failing.

But I like wire hangers. I makes artsy projects out of them.
I don't drive yet...
(Yeah, yeah, I know. 21 and can't "legally" drive by myself yet since I only have a permit. Lame, I know.)
But I already have explosive road rage. xD

LOL Not as bad as the boyfriend's though.
He cracks me the hell up, with his crazy shouting and obscenities. xD
Yelling and flipping people off is my level too, but if he gets cut off on the freeway and they're STILL going as slow as they did in the other lane, they better get the hell back into the other lane. xD
He'll ride their ass so close that they don't dare break check him and scare the shit out of them until they get back into the other lane. lmfao!
Crazy fucker. Works like a charm though.
He has the worst road rage ever. hahaha

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Originally Posted by Risque

@ ginger: What you did to that obnoxious bitch in math class makes me proud. I wish I was ballsy enough to say that to every single rude person who wouldn't shut the hell up in class.. but I am too beta.

I am a silent rager. I got anger issues like the rest of you but I just smile my creepy smile and continue doing my thang when deep down I am going on a mental killing spree.

Oh believe me, being mousey is a good thing. xD
My mouth gets me a LOT of haters, and I offend a LOT of people. lol
It's okay though, I have mental killing sprees too, I would never actually act on them of course, but it still makes you feel better to mentally watch them get hit by a bus or stab them in the eye socket with a pen.

Hmm... Mine is comparatively milder but its my kids that almost all the time get to me... i try my best not to shout but when i do i feel awful and bad... i feel like a bad parent. I know we need to be patient with kids and i have come to know that they dont follow your orders as much as they follow your actions... so i hope i can stay relaxed when they fight over kids stuff and smile through the mess they create

hey-hey! Dont be mad baby!

There's a lot of people out there who have some serious road rage, my ex boyfriend was really bad and would do the same thing and even threaten with violent gestures... It scared the crap out of most people and I think intimidated some bigger folk as well... he wasn't a small guy himself about 6'4 230 pounds... he was big guy actually, I think I would be afraid of him too if I were on the other end lol

The wire hanger thing I was making a joke to the movie Mommy Dearest, I don't know if you have seen it, but look it up on youtube and I'm sure you will see it. She was a crazy lady who was a famous actress. Her name was Joan Crawford.

Originally Posted by Maha-Aamir

Hmm... Mine is comparatively milder but its my kids that almost all the time get to me... i try my best not to shout but when i do i feel awful and bad... i feel like a bad parent. I know we need to be patient with kids and i have come to know that they dont follow your orders as much as they follow your actions... so i hope i can stay relaxed when they fight over kids stuff and smile through the mess they create

LOL
Yeah, you have a lot of patience, I'd put the fear of God into my kids. xD
Wouldn't beat them of course, but I'm not into the whole "don't spank your kids or they won't end up spoiled little shits! :o" generation.
Hell, I'm all for corporal punishment. xD
(To an extent of course, abuse is never cool, and you never smack anyone out of anger.)
Everyone I know who got a good ass whoopin' for being bad ended up successful in life. lol
My generation...eh, we're mostly entitled "participation trophy" losers.
I honestly wish I had some sense smacked into me when I was younger, would have saved me some bullshit.

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Originally Posted by caseyur

hey-hey! Dont be mad baby!

You wouldn't want to. xD
I'm an expensive drunk, I drink like a damn fish.

Originally Posted by Ikuto Akihiko Hasegawa

You need to share a picture of that table!

I go through angry spats too. I feel that as long as you're not doing anything drastic during them (hurting people, destroying property that isn't yours, etc...), then what's the harm... And better if you're aware of how you are and take precautions or something.
I do think anger is something that we aren't really taught how to deal with, you know?
I usually just have to rant about what's bugging me to get it out of my system and then I reach a point where I go "... You know, I don't care, this is a waste of time.." and that's it. Laugh about it a bit. \o/ Funny how I have to go through that process to reach that conclusion though, lmao. I already know I'm going to reach it, why can't I just skip the middle part? D;

I tend to react/process my anger in a similar fashion these days, but that wasn't always the case.

I know when I was younger I used to have pretty bad anger issues. I could bottle rage like no other and it tended to end badly. Mind you, I grew up in a very tense home with a family member who refused to take his blood pressure pills and was prone to sudden bouts of anger. I grew up responding to anger with anger, because it was the only thing I knew for quite a good stretch of my life.

It went something like: someone approaches you swearing and yelling and threatens you with violence, you react in kind.

I grew out of it (going off to college and getting away from it all for 4 years really helped), because that was someone that I DID NOT want to be. I hated the feeling of rage building up within me, and absolutely loathed the person that I became when enraged, even if it was a defense mechanism. Now I tend to react to conflict and raised voices by flinching away rather than with anger. And, while I realize that that isn't necessarily a healthy reaction either, it's better than what it could be / once was.

Originally Posted by Kole_Locke

There's a lot of people out there who have some serious road rage, my ex boyfriend was really bad and would do the same thing and even threaten with violent gestures... It scared the crap out of most people and I think intimidated some bigger folk as well... he wasn't a small guy himself about 6'4 230 pounds... he was big guy actually, I think I would be afraid of him too if I were on the other end lol

The wire hanger thing I was making a joke to the movie Mommy Dearest, I don't know if you have seen it, but look it up on youtube and I'm sure you will see it. She was a crazy lady who was a famous actress. Her name was Joan Crawford.

LOL mine is pretty intimidating too at times if he wants to be. xD
Mainly just with driving or if someone tries to start shit.
He's pretty level headed and always tries to avoid violence though.
Haha he's even intimidating to some people when he doesn't even try. lol
It's really dumb actually.
He has a concealed weapon's permit, so he carries his gun on him almost all the time, and people are so freaked out by guns these days that they're automatically intimidated. :P
(Even it they're reasponsible gun owners, who have no round in the chamber, who are obviously sane minded and wouldn't just shoot anyone for some stupid reason or scuffle, and could save your damn life if some actual wacko did come along. )
He won't even pull it out for "scare factor" if people try to mess with him.

Well, one time he just had his shirt off because he was hot from lugging the snowmobiles off the trailer and trying to dink around and fix one of them. Haha like 25% of the people who walked/road by us saw it in the holster, and had surprized terrified looks on their faces...even though greenwater has gravel pits that people go shooting at ALL THE TIME, with super obvious "shoot responsibly" signs everywhere. lol People are so stupid sometimes, at least the rest of the rednecks, like us, just act like "Whatevz, normal."

Side note, I think it's dumb that people who carry guns are automatically perceived as "dangerous terrorists!" or some dumb crap like that. :O
No, dangerous is a lack of conscience and severe mental issues. You have to be pretty evil to just go around shooting people "just because".
Hell, I'm bipolar and I would NEVER shoot anyone unless they're threatening my family's lives or my own.
Too much respect for human life. It's the sociopaths you have to worry about. lol
Anyways enough rambling about guns...

Doesn't take much to intimidate people at all though. xD
My friend actually ended up admitting to me that when she first met me, she was a little scared of me. I was like "Da fuk? o_O For why?"
Apparently because I don't have a muzzle, and I just say whatever to anyone most of the time, so she thought I would beat her up or something if she said anything wrong. lol
For real? I don't just go around like the school bully stealing lunch money from fourth graders, and I'm not easily offended.

Well then, another novel. I should start a rant blog. xD

Originally Posted by Souless Ginger Kid

LOL mine is pretty intimidating too at times if he wants to be. xD
Mainly just with driving or if someone tries to start shit.
He's pretty level headed and always tries to avoid violence though.
Haha he's even intimidating to some people when he doesn't even try. lol
It's really dumb actually.
He has a concealed weapon's permit, so he carries his gun on him almost all the time, and people are so freaked out by guns these days that they're automatically intimidated. :P
(Even it they're reasponsible gun owners, who have no round in the chamber, who are obviously sane minded and wouldn't just shoot anyone for some stupid reason or scuffle, and could save your damn life if some actual wacko did come along. )
He won't even pull it out for "scare factor" if people try to mess with him.

Well, one time he just had his shirt off because he was hot from lugging the snowmobiles off the trailer and trying to dink around and fix one of them. Haha like 25% of the people who walked/road by us saw it in the holster, and had surprized terrified looks on their faces...even though greenwater has gravel pits that people go shooting at ALL THE TIME, with super obvious "shoot responsibly" signs everywhere. lol People are so stupid sometimes, at least the rest of the rednecks, like us, just act like "Whatevz, normal."

Side note, I think it's dumb that people who carry guns are automatically perceived as "dangerous terrorists!" or some dumb crap like that. :O
No, dangerous is a lack of conscience and severe mental issues. You have to be pretty evil to just go around shooting people "just because".
Hell, I'm bipolar and I would NEVER shoot anyone unless they're threatening my family's lives or my own.
Too much respect for human life. It's the sociopaths you have to worry about. lol
Anyways enough rambling about guns...

Doesn't take much to intimidate people at all though. xD
My friend actually ended up admitting to me that when she first met me, she was a little scared of me. I was like "Da fuk? o_O For why?"
Apparently because I don't have a muzzle, and I just say whatever to anyone most of the time, so she thought I would beat her up or something if she said anything wrong. lol
For real? I don't just go around like the school bully stealing lunch money from fourth graders, and I'm not easily offended.

Well then, another novel. I should start a rant blog. xD

I think it's illegal to brandish a weapon like a gun or knife at someone, but if they don't know who you are who are they going to report?

My ex was always drinking so he tended to follow trouble at times... It was kind of sad really... that's one reason why he is now my ex. Thankfully he never had a permit to own a gun... there are some people who should never have a gun.

I feel like the anger comes with being a natural redhead..... :P I am really firey so I'll hold stuff in for a few days and then something like losing my pen or something will send me into a cursing fit for a little while XD

I have a very short temper. Though I'm the kind of person that if you piss 'em off, they will ignore you and stomp around for awhile before the person asks what's wrong. Then I'll just explode at that person instead of saying something when I should of. Though it's not that easy when most people get really pissy at you and don't even listen to what you have to say either way >.>

Yesterday at work I got really pissed off. I work in a buffet, and had to manage a station pretty much by myself all day long. And one that you make all of the food for your line at the station, instead of having most of your food be made downstairs and sent up by the dumbwaiter.

Earlier in the day I noticed one of my co-workers come over with a pan of what I thought at the time was extra steamed rice to give to me for my line. But later I found out that my co-worker stole the steamed rice I had prepared for my line that is supposed to last me all day. And if you work the Chinese station, you have to make your own steamed rice, which I get done in the morning. Though when I went to get more steamed rice, I noticed I had like, NONE left, and not much time had passed since we opened for lunch. So I got really pissed off at my co-worker who stole my steamed rice to put on his line for the morning. And considering that I was by myself all that day, I couldn't go downstairs and take a little extra time to make some since I had to keep stir frying food to put out on my line.

And also, I kept getting really pissed off at the customers all of yesterday. It was a slow day, so you would think that the food on your line wouldn't deplete that fast. But customers were grabbing a LOT of the same thing, and kept attacking the same food to eat all at once. So I had to keep putting out food really fast since people wouldn't just take other food on the line. I ended up going through six bags of chicken wings way before it was time to leave for the end of the day. And I usually end up using that much for the whole day. So I got pissed off about that.

Also, I had made won ton soup yesterday as well for the line. And if you know anything about our customers, whenever you have won ton soup out, EVERYBODY WANTS SOME. So I would put new soup out just to see within five minutes that it needs to be refilled again, and I have customers complaining that there isn't any soup. IF YOU PEOPLE WOULDN'T TAKE SO MUCH OF IT YOU WOULDN'T HAVE THAT ISSUE *table flip*, so I was pissed off about that.

I also got pissed off that I couldn't get ANY prep done for swing shift, so that way they would have plenty of prepped food for their shift so they could prep for the day shift. But considering that I was solo at a two person station, that didn't get done. Nor did it get done today since I had to work solo most of the day.

Oh, and what really pissed me off today is - we rotate between four different soups for the Chinese station within two days. I made won ton soup yesterday, so it wasn't listed to be made today since I had two different soups to make. But I had a customer come over to me and complain that I didn't make any won ton soup for the station and he wanted to know why. I simply explained to the customer that we rotate between soups so that way each day is different from the previous. He just laughed at me, expecting it to be an every day thing. So the guy walks off and goes to inform our chef, my boss, that there wasn't any today like there APPARENTLY should of been. And I stood behind the line pissed off, but knew that our chef was going to say the same exact thing that I did, which he did. Made me lawl.

I do have a hard time though not being a smart ass whenever a customer tries to start something with me. They always want things done their way, and expect things to be on the line when they get there. It's a buffet, we rotate dishes each day to provide a variety throughout the week. Some people just don't understand that <.<

I'M DONE DEALING WITH SO MUCH STUPID *table flip*

I don't call it anger issues. I just call it sensitivity.

I get upset with the most random things that shouldn't bother me to begin with.

I get angry if someone says something bad about my writing, if something happens in Glee that I didn't want to happen, if a show goes on Hiatues/Break, if I have to wait a while for a new season (I'm a tv show junkie), if they made a movie completely wrong that was based off of a book I've read *cough Twilight cough*, if someone beats me in Magic the Gathering, etc.

When people get mad over trivial issues... I base a comment I make off the movie Mommy Dearest...
Like when someone gets mad over something as little as someone wearing their shirt untucked or someone not hanging something up perfectly the way its supposed to be...

I call those moments.... Wire Hanger moments lol
because they are so little yet make people so angry... like a pet peeve really.

oh you are totally off your rocker... that's for sure... but I have quite a temper too... I don't really think it is bad...

Originally Posted by Souless Ginger Kid

LOL
Yeah, you have a lot of patience, I'd put the fear of God into my kids. xD
Wouldn't beat them of course, but I'm not into the whole "don't spank your kids or they won't end up spoiled little shits! :o" generation.
Hell, I'm all for corporal punishment. xD
(To an extent of course, abuse is never cool, and you never smack anyone out of anger.)
Everyone I know who got a good ass whoopin' for being bad ended up successful in life. lol
My generation...eh, we're mostly entitled "participation trophy" losers.
I honestly wish I had some sense smacked into me when I was younger, would have saved me some bullshit.

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You wouldn't want to. xD
I'm an expensive drunk, I drink like a damn fish.

you and me both toots,

Originally Posted by Kole_Locke

I think it's illegal to brandish a weapon like a gun or knife at someone, but if they don't know who you are who are they going to report?

My ex was always drinking so he tended to follow trouble at times... It was kind of sad really... that's one reason why he is now my ex. Thankfully he never had a permit to own a gun... there are some people who should never have a gun.

That is true, there are.
Like people who have had serious drug issues or sociopathic tendencies. :P
But sadly no law will ever stop them from getting them. /:

---------- Post added 02-11-2013 at 01:08 PM ----------

Originally Posted by Maria-Minamino

I feel like the anger comes with being a natural redhead..... :P I am really firey so I'll hold stuff in for a few days and then something like losing my pen or something will send me into a cursing fit for a little while XD

lmao!
SO true!
We're firey. xD

@Laila Izuka:
This is why I could never work in food service! D;
I'd blow the fuck up. xD

@Kole:
lol I get pissed off by people getting offended by stupid things, or taking offense to every little thing anyone says!
My cousin is like that. He's SO overly sensitive!!!
Ugggghhh. /:

@Lela:
Damn straight! ;D

@Caseyur: lol I probably have a problem, but oh well. xD

I'm pretty calm cool and collected when it comes to well everything. Almost to a point of total apathy, which is kinda the opposite way of being. I simply don't really care. People always remark to me how things never seem to go wrong for me...when in fact they do. I just deal with it. The only thing that sets me off is if someone says something negative about my family or my daughter in particular. Otherwise if something breaks I fix it, or if someone acts up I fix them. (not with fists with words or acts of kindness )

When you get flustered it often leads to more issues that would have easily been avoided had you not been smashing around like a primate.

My boyfriend on the other hand, is very opposite to me. Just last night he made a bit of a fool of himself. He got mad because his digital game authenticator wasn't working properly and he couldn't open his account. It was only the second or third time of him trying to enter the code before he launched it into the air. AND right threw his laptop screen. So now the silly caveman has no laptop on top of his uncooperative Authenticator. . . Smart. That was a $2000 my dad got him last year in payment for doing the out door work while he's gone. (My dad's a trucker so he's only in for 2-4 days a month)

There was also the time he got the car stuck in the snow and punched the windshield because he was mad that we were going to be late to the party. Because, you know a broken wind shield would get us there SO much faster. That was a $200 repair job to his car. Oh and when he got the wrong component to put into his computer so it wouldn't fit into the motherboard...he smashed both it and the motherboard. That's another $700 THEN he complains to me about him being in debt and not having enough money for food. All I can think to my self is...jee maybe if you didn't break your shit when a little mistake happens you wouldn't be.

Yes I believe that's what this whole gun debate is about and about automatic and semi-automatic weapons... the banning of them.

Originally Posted by XxZombie.Mama.NephxX

I'm pretty calm cool and collected when it comes to well everything. Almost to a point of total apathy, which is kinda the opposite way of being. I simply don't really care. People always remark to me how things never seem to go wrong for me...when in fact they do. I just deal with it. The only thing that sets me off is if someone says something negative about my family or my daughter in particular. Otherwise if something breaks I fix it, or if someone acts up I fix them. (not with fists with words or acts of kindness )

When you get flustered it often leads to more issues that would have easily been avoided had you not been smashing around like a primate.

My boyfriend on the other hand, is very opposite to me. Just last night he made a bit of a fool of himself. He got mad because his digital game authenticator wasn't working properly and he couldn't open his account. It was only the second or third time of him trying to enter the code before he launched it into the air. AND right threw his laptop screen. So now the silly caveman has no laptop on top of his uncooperative Authenticator. . . Smart. That was a $2000 my dad got him last year in payment for doing the out door work while he's gone. (My dad's a trucker so he's only in for 2-4 days a month)

There was also the time he got the car stuck in the snow and punched the windshield because he was mad that we were going to be late to the party. Because, you know a broken wind shield would get us there SO much faster. That was a $200 repair job to his car. Oh and when he got the wrong component to put into his computer so it wouldn't fit into the motherboard...he smashed both it and the motherboard. That's another $700 THEN he complains to me about him being in debt and not having enough money for food. All I can think to my self is...jee maybe if you didn't break your shit when a little mistake happens you wouldn't be.

See, I can't ever be the apethetic type. It's just not my nature. I can't exactly help it. I'm the kind of person who expresses my opinion, I can't just stand by when things get screwed up. But like I said, I don't like to mess with other people's things. Petty stuff around the house that get to me usually just accumulate, or people end up doing/saying stupid shit to add to it, and I just usually go somewhere else and explode. It does take a while of it piling up though, unless I'm getting my bipolar cycles that day, then I have a lot shorter of a fuse. xD
Shit, people can tell and know when to get the hell out of my way when I'm PMSing, cycling, and things have been stressing me out.
Though, I am apathetic and keep my mouth shut when it comes to certain situations or things people say, sometimes I really just don't feel like dealing with a never ending "debate" and making people butthurt, sometimes it's too inapproprite for certain social situations or at work, and sometimes it's some family function and I don't want to embarrass my mom too much. The way I look is bad enough. xD

LOL My boyfriend is the opposite of me too, he's usually the calm collected one kind of like you. He's pretty good at keeping his cool even when he is pissed off, but like me, eventually things pile up too much and he'll explode like I do. xD
Takes a lot longer for him to have enough though.

Like this Sunday for example. We went snowmobiling and I didn't see where he went.I guess I actually road right past him, but since I focus mainly on the trail so I can see if I'm going to hit a bump or something. (Especially since the trail was pretty close to the edge of a cliff, I'm terrified by the thought of falling, and it was pretty bumpy if you're going over 25mph because it wasn't recently groomed. )
I figured he road ahead of me on the main trail since he knew I knew where I was going... apparently he didn't ride ahead of me and spent like 30 minutes searching random paths for me.
I still feel like such an idiot. It took me FOREVER to realize that I should really just turn around and go back, I really need to learn not to ignore the little voice of common sense in the back of my head. xD
It would have saved both of us a lot of trouble.
The thought finally kicked in and I though "Oh shit! Max might be stuck or having issues with his sled, I ditched my boyfriend! I feel like such a bitch! "
I turned around. Luckily things worked out okay in the end. I found him, and he didn't get stuck or have problems. He was just freaked out, worried, and pissed when he was looking around for a while and couldn't find me. He thought I got lost on some random path, and that he wouldn't be able to find me and have to recruit other random snowmobilers to split up and basically form a search party for me. xD
I expected him to be pissed off and at least scold me, it would be a very reasonable responce after all of that. :P
But no, he was very calm and patient with me, I was surpized because anyone else would have freaked out.

Wow dude, I'm not even THAT bad. o_o"
He has some issues.
(Hope I'm not over stepping my bounds and being a bitch by saying that. )
I'd never freak out hardcore like that over such little things.
Definitely wouldn't go around breaking expensive stuff.
I can see what you mean when it comes to anger making things worse, that's taking it to a whole new level. :o